I recently talked to a lesbian friend, and she said that she enjoys manual and oral stimulation, but if she wanted penetration, she would have stayed straight. Is this common? I know the porn films are generally not accurate, but in most, you see the strap on come out at some point.
Do you use a phallic item? Do you prefer it? Or do you prefer not to have anything inserted for good lovemaking?
This seems like a poll, so this seems like the place to put it.