My wife and I both like penetration but seldom bother to do it with anything other than our fingers.
Lesbian here. Yup, my partner and I both enjoy penetration. Dildo and finger. But it’s only one part of our sexual repertoire. Depends on my mood what I’m into on a given day. Being the “top” has it’s own charms, too.
This may be just a personal taste thing, but I prefer my “penis” without those hairy balls hanging down and flapping around (ugh, shiver). I’ve had – and enjoyed – sex with men. The penis is a fascinating thing. But balls… not my favorite. Honestly, my ideal (and here we get into the realm of ancient Greek fantasy) would be some sort of hermaphrodite with a fully functioning (real live warm skin, not rubber) penis but no balls, less hair, and a body/face more like a woman. TMI?
For hairy: shave. For hanging down & flapping: keep the room cold. Works every time.
Or find someone with undescended testicles. Works for contraception, too. 
I’m a lesbian and I don’t like penetration.
I’m a gold star which means I’ve never been with a man which is true but I have used a strap on with partners I have had but it’s perfectly fine to be a lesbian and not enjoy penetration.
I’ll cop to that. On the one hand, I can understand why it feels good, and why some guys like it. On the other hand, the mental block is too big for me to get over, so it’s not for me.
Yes, they just don’t want a man doing the penetrating.
All the lesbians I know (well, the ones who talk about such things) are rather enamored of fisting.
So, yeah, some if not most lesbians like penetration.
Because that makes them fags, doncha know.
I have found that making a completely safe and accepting space for my lover to be very effective at breaking down that resistence. Once he’s absolutely sure that he won’t be judged, he cops.
And THEN I point, laugh, and call him a big flaming homo.
(j/k)
<snip>This may be just a personal taste thing, but I prefer my “penis” without those hairy balls hanging down and flapping around (ugh, shiver). I’ve had – and enjoyed – sex with men. The penis is a fascinating thing. But balls… not my favorite. Honestly, my ideal (and here we get into the realm of ancient Greek fantasy) would be some sort of hermaphrodite with a fully functioning (real live warm skin, not rubber) penis but no balls, less hair, and a body/face more like a woman. TMI? <end snip>
Not at all. Your post was most informative. Thanks for the insight.
Jack
Never heard that one before! I’m going to have to ask around to find out if everyone but me has heard it, of my friends (have heard ‘thoroughbred’ for gay guys who have never been with women).