Don’t see, read, or hear much about women getting off on breast stimulation.
Does it exist?
How to guide? Tips for the men?
Don’t see, read, or hear much about women getting off on breast stimulation.
Does it exist?
How to guide? Tips for the men?
Yes. Yes, they do.
Please elaborate.
Yup. At least for me.
Nevermind.
I believe they do - and while I think it might be possible for me, I have never had anyone with the time or patience to conduct such an experiment with me…
Unless I was being duped, I have anecdotal evidence that they exist.
You know, I am a scientist.
I once dated a woman who loved oral sex and intercourse but was much more into kissing and breast play. kind of bittersweet on my part. She even had names for her breasts. one of them was a good girl and the other was bad. very interesting, she was! she would get off on the attention to her breasts, and no, I was not being duped. Can’t wait to tell the grandkids about her.
I’m not a scientist or a sex therapist. However, I hypothesize that this (like female ejaculation) is the kind of thing that you’ve either got or don’t got. It may be a consciously nudge-able ability, but I sincerely doubt it’s as easy to develop/learn as multiple orgasms.
My breasts tend to get irritated rather quickly with even the lightest stimulation. Fine for light foreplay, but let’s get past that stage quickly please! I am not interested in pushing them further than their natural limits, and I feel sure that I am not “wired” for boobgasms. I’m ok with that.
Yes, a large component of female orgasm is mental. But I feel fairly confident that if this ability isn’t doable by the time a woman hits sexual maturity, it’s not likely to develop even with dedicated practice.
Grandkids aren’t going to want to hear about Grandpa’s sexual proclivities!
I’m married to a woman who can orgasm just from breast play- yes, it exists. Sometimes she’ll just want me to suck on a nipple, and gently use my teeth on it, and she’ll keep whispering to me to do it a little harder. I gradually increase the pressure, almost to the point where I’m afraid of drawing blood, but with neither of us even touching her clit or pussy, she’ll orgasm.
It doesn’t happen often, but when she’s in the mood for it, it’s kind of cool.
Yeah it exists. I know this because I’ve been with guys who keep trying to poke at my nipples to make me get off because that has apparently worked for them with other girls and I have to politely remind them that I AM NOT ONE OF THOSE GIRLS.
I have been with guys with super-sensitive nipples. It’s handy to have such conveniently-placed erogenous zones.
Not only do they exist, but there are different kinds. I had one girlfriend who could get off that way from gentle, prolonged stimulation. For another girl, it would only happen from brief, intense and painful stimulation.
A big part of it was mental for both ladies.
On the squirting concept, I once met a guy who swore he could get any woman to squirt.
I believe him.
Well, since no one else has had to courage to volunteer -------------
I was 26 (I think) when I discovered I could do this. When most guys play with your ladies, they’re doing it wrong. When it’s done properly, it’s like a sunny, new universe opens up for you.
Without going too TMI, my personal experiments in this subject suggest to me that although it’s possible for a partner to get a woman to squirt, once a woman is able to do it for one partner, she can do it for another. Example: a woman did that for me for the first time, and then was able to do it with another partner, who had never previously gotten a woman to do it.
Suggests to me that it’s learned behavior. Although maybe there are those who cannot learn to do it.
I knew one woman who, early in our relationship, could easily have orgasms through breast play. As time went on, one nipple became much too sensitive. This may have related to her going on birth control.
I concur. None of the other women I’ve been with have come just from breast stimulation, and I doubt it’s just my technique. I really think it’s a wiring thing. EVERY WOMAN I have ever been with has had orgasms differently, often markedly so.
Good points. I’ve never gone at it with the intensity of **corkboard **since the one woman I’ve been with who DID have orgasms that way did so with intense but gentle touching.
MeanOldLady, if you could elaborate *just *a little, I think you’d make great strides in this board’s goal to fight ignorance.
You do realize that EVERY guy says their women orgasm – and they honestly believe it to be true! – but here is where women lie and deceive…
Sad, but true.
Not to say it isn’t possible, but on several women forums I am on, the number of women who confess to faking it is astonishing.
Well, I know there are some women who only climax through clitoral stimulation and some of these women honestly believe that clitoral stimulation is the only way to have an orgasm, scientifically speaking. For those women, I have coined the term ‘schmorgasm’. It is that feeling one gets when being stimulated in ways that doesn’t involve direct clitoral contact, but never the less brings on a feeling of euphoria and flush ecstasy complete with powerful vaginal muscle spasms.
The breast under the skilled care of a master can bring on a schmorgasm.