Actually, all this lose talk about sex, nipples, orgasms, etc., has not only dangerously raised my blood pressure, it has caused me to reflect on years gone by. And I remember------one woman and only one who I knew beyond doubt could experience orgasms through nipple stimulation. And I knew it beyond doubt as her orgasms were sometimes life threatening.
And I remember------one woman and only one who experienced, demonstrably, female ejaculation. (I hate the other word used to describe this; calling someone a sq------ cheapens the entire experience, IMHO)For whatever it is worth, that woman allowed me to be her first sexual partner; her ejaculatory experiences didn’t begin until some time after we first became intimate but they were regular after the first time. I don’t know if she had similar experiences with other partners.
This woman is just wonderfully, magically, sensitive and easily stimulated. It is not much of an exaggeration to say that I could touch the end of her nose and say “beep!” and she’d come.
The woman in question was a woman with whom I had a multi-year extramarital affair. It took a while for her to feel comfortable enough with me to make the request “Please suck my titties really hard.” Yes, that’s a quote. I have always been loath to displease a woman and so I did, in fact, suck her ‘titties’ (that’s what she called them) really hard with results that ranged from spectacular to spectacularly spectacular; there was much twisting, turning, kicking, flailing, sheet-shredding, wall paper removing, hair pulling, back clawing, frightening and loud vocalization involved and I ain’t making this stuff up. Strangely enough, really hard 'titty" sucking failed to evoke the above reaction unless she specifically requested it. When she did request it, a lot of it was required to to achieve the objective but I wasn’t doing anything else at the time so I didn’t object to humoring her.
I sincerely hope I have provided enough information to help save your life; men need to stick together (so to speak) at times like these.
Making love is much like the martial arts. There are a fair number techniques that are good strategy in general, and that almost anyone could benefit from learning. There are many techniques that are only useful in certain situations, and a lot of high-risk, high-reward techniques that, while generally crap, can be devastating if used at the right moment, on the right person. The important thing, though, isn’t what techniques you know, it’s knowing your target. Being able to read their responses to your moves and adapt accordingly is not a path to victory, it is the path to victory.
Also like the martial arts, there’s loads of misinformation, so take all advice well salted. And while size and fitness are helpful, they are not critical if you know what you’re doing. You’ll never know what you’re truly capable of until you push yourself. Or are pushed by your trainer. While alcohol is frequently involved in real-world encounters, I would recommend imbibing reasonably beforehand, if at all. Blindfolds are a good tool for learning situational awareness. Don’t expect the real-world version to resemble the movie version very much. Michelle Yeoh looks fantastic doing it. And, of course, everyone online is an expert.
Unlike the martial arts, however, ‘Keep your feet below your knees’ is not always good advice.
