Honey, is that you?? notices mention of watermelon safeword Ah, nope. Guess not.
'Scuse me, all, I gotta run to my bunk for just a minute or two…
Making a note to show this to my boyfriend. This describes what I like perfectly.
None of the various partners that enjoyed spanking ever thought they were being humiliated. They indicated they enjoyed the physical stimulation of having a rosy red ass, followed by a very gentle licking of the wounds.
Penis ensued and everyone went home happy.
That bit right there (that I bolded above) is what took me a while to get into it. I was terrified that I was going to hurt my partner and getting past the stigma that I was hitting them…even though they wanted me to. The way I got over it was to be with someone who was more than willing to be patient and would tell me when it was too much, reassure me when I thought I had gone too far but really hadn’t and teach me new things to do to them.
Me? No.
Partners? Yes. More have than haven’t.
I’m guessing most people that like to be spanked will be answering, so just for balance, I’m chiming in with my “no.” It has never occurred to me, nor have I ever fantasized about it in the abstract.
Also, I’ve read some of Anne Rice’s erotica which was all about spanking and it never raised a spark in me!
So, no.
What he (Cervaise) said.
Don’t like to do it and don’t want it done to me. Pain is not my thang.
For me it helps if there’s a scenario involved. Let’s just say I blush every time I see the manager of my local supermarket because, you know, he had a word with my husband about me stealing an eyeliner and told my husband that if he didn’t take care of it, the police would be brought in. Not really, of course. But that was a lot of fun.
No.
I am not the least bit interested in that stuff. My kink is exhibitionism though, so to each their own I guess.
I probably should have been more clear: spanking is something I, inside my own head associate with infantilization and humiliation, which is why it’s not a sexual turn-on for me.
I didn’t mean to imply that my impressions were the same as those who enjoy the practice.
Dude … dude. I’m so queer for you!
Huh? Oh. Ahem. Um. Never been spanqed, but right now I’d just like the attention! The ex liked the occasional.
This is the part I don’t understand.
I mean, spankings ceased to be pain for most of us somewhere around 10 or 11 years of age. Back in the day when spanking was what parents did to misbehaving kids, that was the age it stopped due to sheer lack of effectiveness. So unless you’re thinking about ‘spanking’ with paddles or rods or something, I just don’t see the mental connection between spankings and pain.
I’m in the camp of liking it as well. makes notes of secret handshake
I had no idea that so many female dopers enjoyed an ass tap. I want to be clear that anything more than pink cheeks is a complete turn off for me. I guess I should have known since most of you are well read and understand that the missionary position can get get boring after awhile.
Spanking? Yes, please.
But it’s not about the pain - it’s about the surprise, the unexpected jolt that gets your adrenaline running. The recognition that the thing you are doing is perhaps not as vanilla as usual - that you’ve been naughty - or that you need a little heat on your sweet meat.
If I could term this delicately, hmmm, I suppose my best analysis is that you guys, when you are, umm - going solo - you grab and squeeze and pull - right? And that’s not about pain - that’s about pleasure - about getting the blood flowing, and the proper stimulation happening.
For some of us, getting us rosy red on the posterior has the same effect.
gravitycrash: that is not my definition of an ass tap. But I like those too - as my bf will attest.
In theory/fantasy, absolutely. I have a submissive streak a mile wide. In reality, it’s a little awkward. But that has more to do with the personality of my mate than anything else. He’s a very gentle, not very dominant sort.
:eek: 
I was at a party once where there were a number of “items” auctioned off to reimburse the host for some of his expenses. One of the female guests volunteered to auction off the right to spank her. I bid $5 just to get things started, and no one else bid, so I won!
There was some discussion about the terms of the spanking…fully dressed, pants down, or bare-bottom…public or private…
When I was finished and the young lady was able to breath normally again 
she took my hand and held it palm up, stroked it, and said that I had “a great hand for spanking”.
^^^^^ that with a little firm, but not breaking the skin biting. Soccor moms have to let loose somewhere.
Hes all mine ladies (and men) hes all mine …hmmmmm I want some watermelon