In addition to the options above, feel free to include your orientation, and/or whether you prefer to spank/be spanked by the opposite sex or the same sex.
Also, how old were you when you first realized you were a spanko?
Me: Straight male, top, female partners. 13-14 when I first realized my inclinations.
I’m not sure I understand the concept of top, bottom and switch. Do you mean do I like getting spanked when I’m on top, on the bottom, or using a switch instead of a hand?
Possibly anyone voting on this poll needs psychological treatment IMHO. Why is there no “I don’t enjoy spanking and think it’s a perversion/sin” choice?
My kink came into bloom in January of this year, though I’d always known I liked to be spanked. It wasn’t until January that I discovered the “other stuff” and it was because some thread on here mentioned bondage.com. I ventured over there and the rest is history. I’m still finding out all sorts of new and crazy things about my own sexuality.
I’m 31, female, and most definitely a bottom/slave/sub type.
To each his/her own, Curtis. There are some people who think straight missionary sex is a perversion, because there’s so much more out there. It takes all kinds.
If liking a little spanky spank is wrong, I don’t want to be right. Not enough to hurt, mind you, just a little extra blood flow to the area at juuuuust the right time… I’m digging it. Geez, Curtis LeMay- uptight fundamentalist much?
I agree with you that there needs to be a “Not interested” option. I disagree with the “judging others” aspect of the rest of what you said, though. Seems awfully close to a personal attack. I also think there should be another option, “I haven’t tried it yet.” That would get my vote.
Damn! I had no idea spanking was an inclination. I thought it was something that was pretty damn normal among two people having enthusiastic sex. I had no idea there was all this nomenclature of bottoms tops and that if gender mattered.
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Male that likes to spank a girl during sex now and then. Does position actually matter, people can be and do the spanking from most any of them.
And don’t be too hard on Curtis. He/she posted in a now locked thread that h/s is like 15 or 16 years old.
Rather, I should have made the question more specific, like so: “Of those here who enjoy erotic spanking, where in the spectrum do you fall?” If you are interested but simply haven’t tried it yet, then just answer where you feel you would fit if you had tried it. My conversations with other spankos online have shown me that many, if not most people with this “kink” realize they’re turned on by the idea of spanking long before they have the opportunity to do it for real. For example, I knew I wanted to spank the girls when I was 13-14 years old (even started writing my own erotic spanking fiction when I was 15 — which was of course ridiculously bad), but didn’t have the opportunity to actually spank a sexual partner until I was 23.
Well, I’m speaking specifically about actual get-yourself-over-my-knee/bent-over-the-back-of-the-sofa spanking, possibly involving implements like paddles and straps, possibly with the spankings being long, drawn-out affairs that may or may not leave marks and produce tears, used as a form of foreplay, maybe with some roleplaying involved, as opposed to a simple “smack that ass” while doing somebody from behind.
Threadshitting. Curtis, I thought you were trying to make friends here. If you don’t like the topic, stay out of it. Don’t come in and call everyone in the thread a pervert and a sinner.
I unfortunately have never been able to try it, since my exes didn’t want to try to spank me. Well, one of them did try, but without much enthusiasm; I think the idea of “beating me up” skeeved her out. I’m still hoping to find a partner who’ll be into it, and I’d also like to try spanking my partner.
Gay male top. If I had the right partner, I might consider trying the other side sometime. Though my experience attempting bondage as a bottom was a complete disaster so who knows.
Okay, totally weird answer here. I’m in a wonderful monogamous hetero relationship, but consider myself bi: I answered switch. Bottom with males, but top with females.
I would just like to register my objection to the term “spanko.” It sounds like a game on The Price Is Right, or possibly something you would bread a chicken cutlet with.