Ok, My first pit rant. Not a big deal, considering this is the only place I read, but here goes…
Can you not answer your cell phone? I know for a fact that you know I called, because the “verizon wireless” message picked up on the second ring, and it usually takes till the 7th or so. WTF? You never answer your phone when I call. Ever. If your parents call, they’re about the only ones you pick up for. Yes, I know this for a fact, I’ve discussed it with him. but DAMN! It’s so fucking frustrating! Not only do you have to be near impossible to get close to, you have to virtually ignore any cell phone call, not return any of them, never start a conversation, never send an email… The only time you’re online is 5 in the morning, and I’m only on from 2 to 10 pm, so whaddya want me to do? If you enjoy my company like you say you do, You have to actually make an effort to spend time with me.
my fiance does this sometimes. (not always! nope nope! not for a long time either! i love you baby…) The answer? BITCH. Loudly. At him. Tell him to either start spend some fucking time on you or start looking for another friend/gf/fuck buddy/whatever. Don’t do this every time he stays incommunicado for a few days, save it for when you haven’t heard from him for 3-5 days or so (I’m basing that timeframe on the assumption that this is a long-term, long-distance relationship) and don’t do it if work is what’s keeping him busy.
If he’s not willing to even try, he is NOT WORTH IT, PERIOD.
