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Of course not; that’s both tacky and pointless. Well, not unless she demanded my honest opinion. Meeting some stranger isn’t the same as expressing one’s opinion on a message board.
And as far as his death being horrible, how about all the horrible deaths of Iraqis ? Why is it only OK to support the US side ? Especially when we are so clearly in the wrong ? People die in wars; I’m only hoping for the deaths of the bad guys. If you support the troops, then you support the horrible deaths of Iraqis; what would you say to their grieving families ?
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I realize this is going to be one huge circular debate, so hopefully we can just end the hijack after not too much more discourse- I mean, we aren’t going to sway one another regardless.
That said, supporting the troops is not the same as directly supporting the murdering of Iraqis. I don’t think that’s a fair assessment to say, as most soldiers don’t enlist to become lean, mean, killing machines.
What would I say to an Iraqi family that has suffered? The same exact thing I tell my friend whose husband was killed why she was pregnant: I’m sorry. I’m so sorry. And while me apologizing probably does nothing to help the hurt, I’m still incredibly sorry that any person had to suffer like that. Justified or not though, war is a horrible thing.
As I said upthread, I don’t support this war. Hell, I don’t support this administration or the decisions they are making, but the soldiers are effectively the pawns in some huge political game and aside from the few that have committed horrible atrocities, most are good guys that were just trying to get a leg up in life by joining the service.
Every Iraqi that died is equal to every American that has died. A life is a life. While that may just be my little cosmopolitan theory, I don’t understand how anyone can say one side or the other deserved to suffer like that. Defining “good guys” and “bad guys” is far too subjective of a thing to pass judgment on an entire group of people on. Your cries that the American soldiers deserved it are no different than the rednecks at the Toby Keith concert screaming from the back of their tailgate that “every single one of those A-rabs in Iraq deserves to die!!!”
Further, I’m sure someone could argue my side of things a whole lot better than I can. But I hope I’m at least coming across clearly.