Sorry about your problems. That is an awful series of events.
I would want to point out some things here though. Full disclosure: I am someone who believes that he is a very good doc but who has made mistakes, good faith errors. No doc hasn’t. Usually the systems in place have prevented my mistakes from causing harm, sometimes dumb luck. I’ve had a mistake cause harm, fortunately not serious harm. I’ve been part of the system of double checks that prevented someone else’s mistake from causing harm. I have been sued and settled. That was for a bad outcome but with no mistake. I did nothing wrong there, but couldn’t risk a jury ruling against me anyway even if unlikely to, and putting my family’s future on the line with a judgement over my policy limits. I hate our system that made me settle when I didn’t do anything wrong and am disgusted with myself for not having the kahones to fight anyway. So with that said …
Doctor one may not have listened well, but didn’t really do anything all that bad despite your horrific outcome. You had wart under the nail. He correctly told you that those are hard to treat and prescibed Aldara, which actually is used for this purpose fairly commonly and works modestly well (it is called unapproved use of an approved medication and is done all the time, heck in peds we rely on it). Sometime after that visit you developed an abscess which progressed to an osteo or the unapparent osteo that was already there came to the surface. Where he dropped the ball was that he blamed a lot of pain on a wart or didn’t listen too well about the degree of pain. Does this mistake mean that he is an overall quack deserving of being removed from the profession and having all he owns taken away? Well those thing may or may not be true. But I wouldn’t conclude that based on one mistake on one day out of a long career of hudreds of decisions made everyday. A complaint via your insurance company will result in an investigation with a QA board (I serve on one for our group). These boards are not just for show. They look for ways to improve care in the future. Often things are improvements on the system. If it is a one time mistake, all that might happen is the comment that he missed this and that he should improve his commuinication skills (for example, listening to you better and informing you about what to expect and when to call back if that wasn’t happening - severe redness and swelling was not to be expected), but we keep tabs on patterns, monitor future behavior, and repeated complaints get more severe actions including revoking privleges.
Next doctor’s office has a problem that is too common. I personally hate PAs seeing patients for initial consults. Follow-ups for routine issues in a limited range by a PA who clearly knows when they do not know, is fine, but if someone is seeing the specialist then they should see the specialist at least for tyhe initial diagnosis, that’s why you are there. And this PA didn’t recognize that he didn’t recognize what was going on. You deserve a response from that doctor and they need to rethink how they use PAs. You didn’t see the derm even after that X-Ray was taken and you were sent on to a hand specialist!?! No question that at that point the PA should be realizing that he misdiagnosed the problem and getting the doc in pronto. Doc shoulda been on the phone getting you into a hands doc that day or the next am. Another inquiry lettter to the insurance carrier and directly to the doctor’s office is appropriate. Keep it calm and present the facts. There were “opportunities for improvement” here. Either the PA is being given too much independence or is taking too much upon himself. In either case that NEEDS to change.
As to legal recourse. Sure any one can always sue. But the point of med-mal legal practice isn’t to be an action of useful change, it is to make lawyers oodles of money. This one wouldn’t do that - some lawyer might take it hoping for a quick settlement, in and out - but few would invest the resources to take it all the way to trial.
You want the docs to learn from this mistake. To be an agent of change. Well a couple of possibilities:
The docs are arrogant assholes who do not recognize that they have anything to learn. This is sometimes the case. If so being sued won’t change that. A quick settlement won’t change that. Being investigated by their own and pressured by peers, that might do it some … maybe.
The docs are overall good people who want to do good work, but each made mistakes. Had a bad day or got sloppy or inattentive with a very busy day. This is most often the case. These docs feel bad already and are already recognizing they fucked up. Make sure that they have looked at how they do things and responded in a way that won’t admit a mistake (with our legal climate, they won’t say that) but says that things have been improved upon anyway. Lawsuits won’t get them to improve any more than straightforward communication and inquiries through extant QA mechanisms.
I hope this a useful perspective to those who want to make doctors’ “children bleed.”