Does everyone require an "object" when they are pleasuring themselves?

Can’t imagine doing it without thinking of someone- if not using porn, 99% of the time will think of someone I actually know, maybe 1% of the time someone famous, etc.

Always my wife with someone else’s wife…

The Japanese have a word for this. It’s something like “ona-idoru” from “onanism” and “idol” (idoru in Japanese). (I say something like because I can’t get the word to come up in a search but I’ve seen it multiple times, maybe another Doper will know the exact word)

I don’t particularly. I usually just watch whatever’s on TV.

I can without one, but it takes a long time and it’s much more fun with a fantasy typically.

I’m sure you’re tired of hearing it, but I instantly thought of you when I read the thread title. :smiley: :stuck_out_tongue:

I generally don’t have anything in mind. Sometimes I start with a fantasy but I tend to get distracted.

I don’t need an object, usually. In fact, hardly ever.

Not me. I don’t need to think about men in thick rubber Hazmat suits and SCBAs cleaning up toxic chemicals to get off. I don’t have to envision the reflection of the sun off the aluminized fire-proximity suits of men putting out an aircraft fire in order to attain orgasm. No siree.

Well, that’s one less thing for the dishwasher. :smiley:

The Jet-Dry & KY were reacting badly anyways…

Gotta have living, breathing, skin-on-skin… my SO, and only my SO

I don’t think you understand the OP…

I used to think Masterbate meant to chew your food.

I don’t think that anymore.

Wow, you think of Autolycus when you rub one out? :o

Sometimes I get so caught up in the details of making the fantasy believable enough that I get frustrated and just go at it frantically with no particular train of thought. If I can see a fantasy through, it is usually a more satisfying experience.