I have done this sometimes not because I want people to rally to my cause(unless it is really is a crazy ass mofo I don’t love but I’m dealing with, see “crazy bitch”).
But because I want feedback to see if I am way off course with the person I do love, or want an outside viewpoint, or just someone to offer some magic advice to fix things. I have in fact received good advice this way, new ways to look at things, and tips on mending things.
You both have issues, buts that’s been covered already.
I would be very interested in this research you have done. It’s been documented that Alpha wolves have shown empathy towards omega wolves plenty of times. Not only that, they have been known to accept cubs into their pack that aren’t their own.