Lately I’ve been noticing this thing in online porn where guys put their fingers into a girl’s mouth, and pull her cheeks out.
It’s sort of like when we used to make faces at people when we were kids, except the guy seems to always be doing it to the girl. And sometimes, but not always, the girl is giving the guy a blowjob while he’s doing it.
Just looks goofy to me.
Does anyone here get turned on by that? And what is it?
I think it’s just a way to degrade the woman. I don’t think it’s done with love, or the intension of giving pleasure. Think of a girl getting a facial… it doesn’t make her FEEL good… but it’s done as a way of degrading women. If you are wanting to know what pleasures your lady, don’t take tips from PORN MADE FOR MEN. Just ask her.
My last girlfriend asked me to do this. I would have never even thought about it but for that.
I don’t see what is degrading about a facial. I didn’t feel degraded when she sat on my face. Maybe we did it wrong, though, by enjoying it as two consenting adults.
I think what you meant to say here was it doesn’t make you feel good. So, you shouldn’t be forced into it. Undoubtedly many women would agree with you, but undoubtedly many would disagree.
FWIW, the best porn-both soft and hardcore-that I’ve ever seen was made by women.
Most likely for men, I agree, but presumably also for women. I think what you need to consider is not whether porn is made for men, but rather if it’s made by men.
Well, I admit I’ve never had the…pleasure, so to speak, and never will, but as I said, it’s not necessarily degrading to anybody to be the target of ejaculate, facially or otherwise. Sure it can be, and probably often is, but not always.
Being a big fan of (watching) facials, I can debunk that in three notes (I otherwise agree with what you said). Of course, I can’t speak for everyone, so this is all IMHO.
I have no desire to see women degraded. If I did, then I’d probably get more pleasure out of seeing facials where the woman disliked getting creamed. As it is, I only enjoy it when the woman seems to enjoy it.
Most women in porn have very pretty faces. Jism is like an ornament. Is decorating a Christmas tree degrading to the tree? (Sierra Club nut jobs need not answer*)
Why are facials sexy? Imagine gooing your lover with the very essence of your manhood. And her reacting with “Ew! That’s disghusting! After I wash this vile stuff off, you’re out on your butt, you pig!” Not much of a turn on, is it? The opposite is.
*I’m not calling all Sierra Club members nut jobs. But every organization has its wingnuts.
Somehow I don’t see that as comfy for the woman and it would probably interfere with the suction for the guy so it seems pointless… unless this is dentist porn?
I have seen that, and I think it is somehow related to a ‘look-how-many(or how big)-members-I-could-stuff-into-her-mouth’ type mentality. And she just takes it. I tend to agree with those that feel it is demeaning. OTOH, some women have the desire to be demeaned. I don’t really get that. Deep seated self-esteem/sex issues, I would guess. I have seen some of those pornos too. No I do not watch too much porn… really… what is too much anyhow?.. ahem.
Anywho, I think any activity between 2 (or more) consenting adults is O.K., and if they want to tape it and show the rest of us, well, I consent to that! But I have to agree with the general tone of confusion regarding this particualr fetish.