It’s not my fault that my ancestors had the opportunity to explore and settle new lands, fight in grand and just wars, and the like. If my lot is to get involved in petty pissing contests in office-building elevators - so be it. All I know is something went wrong the other day, and I’d like to know what it was so as to avoid such unpleasantness in the future.
I’m the only passenger riding the vator down at the end of the day. I have about 15 minutes until my train, and it takes maybe 12 minutes to get from my office to the train.
The vator stops and a guy gets on. Except he does not get completely on, but stands partly in the doorway, preventing the door from closing. He does not look at or say anything to me, but instead is looking towards the elevator lobby, where I hear at least 2 voices speaking. No sounds of “Hold that vator, please” or other signs of someone hurrying.
I don’t know exactly how long we remained like this - I estimate that you could have counted to 5 slowly - maybe longer but I don’t want to exaggerate. I didn’t know how long the guy intended to hold the vator, and didn’t really want to be kept there, so I said something - either “Come on” or “Let’s go.” In retrospect, I guess I could have said something else. Suggestions?
The guy holding the door looks at me and says, “He’s coming.” Now, the elevator lobby is mayby 30 feet from one end to the other - anyone trying to get to the vator would have had more than enough time to get there. Heck, the light and bell allow anyone wanting to get on to be in front of the doors as they open. And I am sure I was somewhat exasperated by this point when I responded along the lines of, “Coming from where? The lobby isn’t that big.” He had still never said, “Are you coming” “Do you want me to hold it” or anything, and I head no sounds of anyone hurrying to the vator.
He responded along the lines of, “You must be important, that you can’t spend a couple of seconds.” Well, technically I could just sit in the vator for a minute or 2, but I didn’t particularly want to. I responded that I had a train to catch.
At which point he started calling me names (“asshole, prick”)and saying things like “Drag your sorry ass home; I pity the poor wife waiting for you; I hope you miss/get run over by your train.” A little confused at being cast as the wrongdoer, I said that I was just trying to ride the elevator down to get home. I had not been inconveniencing him, but he was inconveniencing me. Somewhere around here the other guy got on, the doors closed, and we rode down the rest of the way.
The guy kept up with the insults, and I am not happy to admit that I responded in kind. All-in-all it was quite the unpleasant end to a pretty average workday. Not an experience I would like to repeat.
So, I ask you - what the hell exactly happened, and what do you recommend doing should a similar situation recur in the future?
(I guess I could simply walk down the 30 flights, but I’d prefer considering other options.)