Back in January, I slept with my best friend. It was his first time since his last girlfriend (my best friend), that he’d been nearly engaged to. It was my first time since my rape. We were best friends. It was 4 in the morning. We were both pretty much beyond drunk. He went half limp about halfway through, and it pretty much killed the mood. We wrote it off due to all the weird circumstances we were in, and tried again the next night. He was tons better the second day, but we still tease each other about the bad sex…
Happened to me once, recently. There were lots of distractions at the time (kids in the next room, phone ringing, etc.).
My SO felt bad (I felt somewhat inadequate as well), but I reassured her that it wasn’t her fault.
The little guy has a mind of his own, and sometimes he just doesn’t want to play.
The only time a man needs an erect penis during sex is if he’s going to penetrate someone with it, get fellated, or if he’s getting bored and he wants to come so he can go home. But (at least for me) that only accounts for a very, very small fraction of sex.
I can lick him from head to toe, kiss him to within an inch of his life, blow him, rim him, finger fuck him, fuck him with a dildo, jerk him off, have him fuck me, tie him up, roleplay, etc., etc., pretty much anything he’d care for me to do for him with anything other than my actual cock.
I don’t even have to come to have had good sex. The rest of the sensations are enough. As I think of it, I can come by myself, but foreplay requires another person.
I swear to God, that one’s from me, NOT Hamish.
Not that I have a lot of experience in this realm, but it would seem to me that any straight guy who has a tongue can get an erection suitable enough for most purposes, no?
I mean, lesbians do manage to have sex - without penises at all!