Did you say gooder? Hmmmm
You point out what I see as an unpleasent side effect of dogma. For some there seems to be a need to believe, “my religion is the right one” or “the truest one” and that leads to an attitude of slightly superior even while they are telling you how God loves everyone equally. There’sa also the idea that There’s also the attitude that Christian love, and/or the love of Jesus is superior to the love of atheists and any other religion. When Christians do something kind and generous it’s because of the love of Jesus. When athrists do something equally kind and generous, it just isn’t quite as good.
I do think this attitude puts a lot of peolpe off, but there are plenty of wonderful Christians and other believers who don’t think that way.
Um, well yeah. I mentioned it earlier in this very thread, but perhaps you’ve heard it someplace else as well. I don’t think it’s a matter of “and then” he forgives us. I think it’s a matter of us giving up the illusions that keep us from God and each other. One example, If seeking the approval of others is more important to us than being loving and truthful we only damage ourselves and stall our own growth. Hopefully at some point we begin to realize this and make a conscious choice to change our attitude. Life’s experiences will guide us and teach us if we pay attention and have the courage to challenge ourselves. As Lib often puts it. We decide what we value most. Consciously or unconsciously.
Right, we have to face the consequences of our own choices. Personal responsibility. Although I use the term God it’s almost a metaphor for me. I don’'t think it’s nessecary to see God as a seperate being out there somewhere apart from ourselves. Infact I’d say that that attitude of God as the seperate being who judges us only impairs our understanding and growth. If you don’t want to think of God as him then consider thinking of the sum total of us. Buddhism has a concept of the Universal mind or something like that.
To some doctrine is very important. It’s ridiculous why some churches have split off into other sects with slightly different doctrines. Of course more than a couple were started by a scam artist with a good story and a new twist on an old story. It’s interesting to me that even even a bogus story can be sincerely helpful to some people.
I agree. What I think is cool is that it doesn’t matter what your foundation is, except in how it reflects in your choices and how those choices affect the world around you. One Christian is a homophobic bigot who exudes pious arrogence. Another is a sincere kind and loving person who dedicates themselves to being of service to others. Both have a foundation of Christianity superficialy at least, but the deeper motavations, “what you value most” must be different. The same for all other belief systems. IMHO it would be better to discuss common values and principles, such as justice, honesty, courage, compassion, mutual respect, which span all belief systems religious and otherwise, instead of diving ourselves into factions or religion, race, sexual preference, gender, etc.
Really? In saying that I don’t believe in Hell as a place of punishment or a God who does judge and punish us, have I not dealt with it?
I do assume God and JC are just. The well from which all love is drawn, and the whole truth and nothing but the truth. If a doctrine doesn’t sense to me along these assumed guidelines then I reject it.