Even Sven, your turn in the barrel!

What you fail to realize, Daniel, is that PRR might not WANT to do anything about the situation except vent. You don’t need to solve it for him or tell him what to do. Let him get it off his chest in MPSIMS without calling him a jerk or telling him he’s the one with the problem. I don’t understand this need to be prescriptive when someone is just mildly complaining about something.

You’re so right! That bastard better be in here bright and early on the 26th. I’ve given all I can, I will not be taken advantage of any further. Anyway, a few more hours and I’m off for my melancholy dinner at my usual melancholy tavern–then an uneventful evening in my chambers, I’m sure.

But here on the dope, advice is mandatory and to reject it makes you a jerk. Wasn’t there a 700+ pit thread about this just recently? :smiley:

Heck, I’ve seen mild venting along the basic lines of “Gah, he leaves the toilet seat up after I told him not to!” greeted with cries of “Divorce him NOOOOOW!” LHoD’s advice was much sounder than that, of course.

Dopers really like to overreact to mild venting, in one direction or another. Either they’ll take up the cause of the OP or decide the OP is a horrible monster. It seems to depend on who the OP is as to which one happens.

As I said, I was probably overreacting, and my exposure to prr’s attitude is entirely voluntary. So I’m gonna stop. I appreciate the suggestion.

Daniel

I think I’ve seen you sign your post in this thread more times than I can count. I tried, but lost track.

You’ve got an easy solution that wouldn’t get you warned about it (stop posting it), but instead make contemptuous remarks about the policy.

On preview, I see you’re stopping (to post in the thread), but I wrote this up already, so I’m posting it.

Two threads, complaining–in a minor way–about a minor annoyance. Where he keeps pounding at the same old grievances, like worrying at a sore tooth.

If prr is so determined not to make a major drama of his annoyance then perhaps he could limit sharing his hissy fits here, hmmmm? Just an idea.

But of course dopers don’t tend to overlook chronic shrill whining because we’re just shits that way.

The problem isn’t the quality; it’s the quantity.

Nah, the quality really sucks too.

So, you can’t pit someone for being a jerk unless they were a jerk to you in an important thread? Huh?

Is there going to be a quiz on this?

He pitted even sven for her inappropriate post in MPSIMS. She admitted it was inappropriate. It seems the pit system worked perfectly to bring it to her attention.

I realize prr appears to be Hated Poster of the Day, but if you’re saying the remedy of a pit posting isn’t available to people if they are annoying, the pit is going to be pretty fucking empty.

Rubystreak and jsgoddess: I don’t think he’s a total douche on the basis of the two Christmas party threads.

I think he’s a total douche because of everything else, too.

Here’s one of his recent threads and the resulting pit thread for your convenience:

You’re free to hate whomever you want, obviously. What’s annoying is when people act as if he’s wrong because of who he is and not for anything he’s saying. I could have posted the MPSIMS thread and wouldn’t have gotten the replies he did, and certainly wouldn’t have gotten the vicious comments in this thread.

It’s human nature to say our enemies can never be right and our friends never wrong, but that doesn’t make it any more pleasant to witness.

So you came into this thread to shit in it because you didn’t care for what I said elsewhere? I didn’t even open your links so I have no idea what you linked to, but how about having the guts and decency to get into it with me there, instead of hijacking this thread and then pretending that your comments–the name-calling, the gratuitous and pointless suggestions, all the poo-flinging-- in this thread are justified? That’s pretty inappropriate behavior, IMO.

It is the pit, that is the nature of the pit. If you start a pit thread, many that dislike you will show up to insult you. I would say it is basic human nature in fact.

Definitely. But exposing people’s hidden agendas, or examining their own exposure of an agenda outside of the topic of a Pitting, is always beneficial.

It’s also a fairly cowardly practice she’s indulging herself in–Green Bean admits that she basically agrees with my point here, and disagrees with Even Sven’s, but she’s going to give me a little grief in this thread because she wasn’t quite finished giving me grief in some other thread. How about growing a pair of balls and sticking on the topic while you’re at it?

There’s a policy?

God, I’m confused by this board sometimes.

Actually, we’re not sure if there is a policy that will be getting enforced or if one mod was feeling a bit cranky the other day.

Do you mean the signature policy?

You can only use a signature once per thread. It’s a two-year-old policy that they now are claiming to be enforcing. I haven’t seen enforcement of it, but there’s more than one mod in that thread claiming that the policy is valid.

On preview, to What Exit’s point, while it’s not clear if they’ll be enforcing the policy, there was more than one mod pointing it out in that thread.

That’s because you’re made of finer cloth. You are thrifty, reverent and brave. You give alms to the poor, comfort to the sick and wisdom to the unthinking masses.

We are not worthy.

Finally, you see it my way. Next time you think about paying someone so you don’t have to read them, just ask yourself wwjd?

Someday I’ll have to get me a religion so that I can be sainted and my body can lie in a glass coffin, incorruptible, after I die. It’s a sweet deal, except for the being dead part.

I don’t have a dog in this fight and didn’t read the thread in question, I just hate when good posts go unacknowledged, so thanks for explaining. And post more about Africa! I love reading your experiences.

Do you hold the same contempt for everyone who ever attended a bris? Do you picket the local synagogue with a sign saying “Give putz a chance”? No? Is it because you have no spine and won’t stand up against human mutilation?

Enjoy,
Steven