So, as I’ve been starting to wrap up (…all right, fine, pun intended 
) my holiday shopping, I’ve noticed that more and more, I want to buy my loved ones stuff that I probably shouldn’t. At least, not if I hope to keep to my budget. But damn it, it’s Christmastime (and also numerous other holidays).
Anyone else get the same feeling? I’m just curious. I’m getting that warm and fuzzy gift-giving “I wanna see them open their presents NOW” feeling 
Yes. I need to stop buying stuff. It’s not expensive, but we take turns opening gifts on Christmas Day. There are only 3 of us, and my daughter is getting embarrassed that 90% of the gifts are hers.
I’ve always been an over-giver. I used to think I was trying to “buy” my friends, or I guess insure their loyalty.
Now I know that it’s a combination of inherent generosity (my parents are very giving people) and compulsive shopping/shopping addiction.
I’ve been doing better in recent years. Giving enough, or resisting giving when it’s not healthy or necessary, rather than giving for my own satisfaction.