And I don’t mean to wake up and find that you were the recipient of the attentions of someone who was fully awake, I mean that you actually did the deed to someone else while asleep and unaware of it.
While chatting about oral sex with my girlfriend, she mentioned she didn’t really like it (giving or receiving) and I replied that it had been over a year and a half since we had last tried that, so no harm done. She then retorted that it had actually only been six weeks. I was puzzled and denied this, clearly remembering it to be quite some time ago, definitely before she was pregnant. No no, said she, six weeks ago, in the middle of the night I sat on her chest and demanded, in somewhat pornographic terms, that she relieve me in this manner :o (smilie both represents the act I wished her to perform and my feelings on hearing about this for the first time!) Inebriation was in no way involved and I cannot remember this at all, not one bit.
Also recounted was the time that we first slept together and I pulled her hand onto my erection, again while asleep. It puzzles me that I’m this forward in my sleep and I was wondering if it was some sort of lust I dare not express while awake or if anyone else did this
I know, I was quite embarrassed to find out I’d done that. I don’t think she was joking about it, she said that if I’d done it once more she was going to have a long talk with me about it :o
The current boy has a habit of starting things with me when he’s asleep. As Freudian Push Up Bra said, he essentially molests me. Same boy also claims to have had sex to the point of orgasm with his ex while they were both asleep.
I’ve had it happen a number of times. I don’t often remember my dreams and when I have “sleep-sex” I don’t remember it at all. If we have had sex late the night before, my wife will ask me if I remember doing anything the night before. Part of that is that is her way of flirting, the other part is her seeing if I remember it (i.e. if I was asleep). My wife has also caught me sleep walking a couple of times as well.
I’m not sure exactly what causes either sleep walking or sleep sex, but I believe I was under a lot of stress at the time and I believe that had something to do with it.
I had sex with a boyfriend while asleep once. The next morning, I was surprized to find out what happened! :eek: And disappointed that I was more adventurous in bed while sleeping than awake. :smack:
This could be the case. I have a long history of sleep-walking. (Once, I woke up in the shower. I walked in, clothes and all, and turned the water on. Very surreal.)
This has actually happened to me. According to my ex-husband, I have had sleep-sex, sleep-dinner, and more than once punched him in the face while asleep. (My subconcious is apparently very active.) And to think I always accused him of eating all the good stuff in the fridge!
On an innocuous side note, apparantly I often sit bolt upright in bed and feel about to make sure my girlfriend is there beside me, then when I find her lie down again :dubious:
I’ve initiated sex while asleep quite often in the past, and often at least partially wake up during these episodes. It’s mostly the result of combined high libidos of my SO and I sharing a bed.
But my ex would often report that I would spoon her and grind my dick into her butt (rubbing, not penetrative) while squeezing her tits. She would have fond memories of this. I would have no memories.
My boyfriend says I do this too. (sans the tits part, since well…he doesn’t have such appendages)
He has also initiated with me, while we were both asleep. :o Usually he wakes up first and we nearly always finish up what he started. To add another anecdote, he has a history of sleep walking as well.
I can’t say I’ve actually had sex while sleeping, but I do kind of do things like what others have said. Often Mrs. Small will say that I wake her up for sex, but I don’t actually remember waking her up - or that I’ll grab her arm in my sleep and pull it over to my…area…heh.
I don’t know how well that counts, but it works for me!
