In my time here there have been a few threads about crap holiday experiences, douche parents, etc. Some of these threads feature stories about kids finding out their about bad financial circumstances by getting gifts that they didn’t want, or parents kind of screwing the pooch when it comes to considering their feelings, etc.
However, in my life I’ve heard stories about children who wake up on Christmas morning and find NOTHING. Not a crappy gift - NO gift. And I’m not talking about a family who’s living in their car - I mean a family who has some sort of house/apartment, possibly set up a tree, and yet there’s not a single gift for the child.
Now, it’s possible I’m remembering an ad campaign from my childhood about helping the needy, but I’m wondering - has this actually ever happened to anyone? As a child, the promise of Christmas is held out to you, and then your parents delivered…nothing?
Obviously, this assumes that your family celebrated Christmas, and it equally assumes that there was the suggestion made that there would be some sort of celebration in your household.
I must say, assuming this has happened, I think I would have a very hard time feeling charitable towards the parents in question - even if the only gift is a home-made sock puppet out of an old sock, at least it’s something - ya know?
So enlighten me - does this actually happen, or was it an advertising thing to get people to give to charities? FWIW, if it’s the latter, it worked (at least for me). The bulk of my Christmas donating goes to children’s charities and when I was working I always spearheaded the adopt-a-family campaign at my office (needy families sign up and are ‘adopted’ by a corporate sponsor who purchases toys, stockings, socks & underwear, grocery gift cards, etc for their particular family.)