In reverse chronological order:
I’m FB and real life friends with my ex-fling/FWB, and we regularly text. She’s in a new relationship, so the “benefits” are on hold, but we still have a pretty deep friendship, and keep up on each others’ lives, and see each other every once in a while. We’re close enough that we’ve discussed being roommates.
My most recent ex-fiancee (Sarah) and I had a horrid break-up a couple of years ago. I abruptly ended our first attempt at being post-relationship friends (begun roughly six months after the break-up) after she began showing up at my job and admitted that she had been driving by my apartment to see if I was home. We’re on our second attempt at being friends, about a year after I ended the first attempt, and I limit it to Facebook and text message only, no more face-to-face meetings. She regularly texts/FB messages me (usually to complain about whatever guy she’s with at the moment :rolleyes:), and a few female friends have told me that she’s contacted them through FB, asking how they knew me. During our break in friendship, I checked 911 calls in her area on a weekly basis to make sure she hadn’t yet committed suicide.
Previous fiancee, Heather, sent a congratulations message last year when I went through commencement, the first time I’d even heard from her since 2006. That she was aware that it was occurring leads me to believe that she occasionally checks in on me. My FB is public, hers is private, so I have no clue what she’s up to.
Ex-GF Kali… no clue. Hope she’s okay.
Ex-wife: she has private FB, but I run into her family members occasionally, and they all seem to know what’s going on in my life, so I’m guessing she’s been following me on FB. They do tell me about her, of course, so I know that she’s got a daughter, the baby’s dad is in jail, she’s gotten more heavily involved in witchcraft… and judging by the number of bill collectors who call me looking for her, she’s been scamming/ripping off a number of car dealers and rent-to-own places.