And to add to my husband’s post - i have yet to see a woman in there pumping milk or breastfeeding. We’ve been using the gym for years. The small “cozy place” has become the extra changing room for when the three available bathrooms are all occupied.
Glad you enjoyed it, honey. OK then, moving on. We have errands to run, no? And other “things” on our…um… to-do list 
It’s easier for women to climax in a hot tub because of the jets.
In that case, the airport should be a blast…
At my age, I prefer origami.
It’s not primarily about the orgasms. On the night my now-husband and I met, he began introducing me to tantric sex. We can pleasure each other for hours and hours, keeping each other just on the verge of climax, without actually having an orgasm. And it’s not frustrating at all, but just a continuous pleasure, kind of like the music of Wagner. Oh sure, we both have orgasms all the time, but they’re just a final release, not the main event. Sometimes an orgasm is really an anti-climax.
Pure straight oral can be ok with the caveat that sometimes it can be too ticklish-making. At the right time, the tickling can add an extra boost to stimulation, but for me [as I can’t answer about any other woman] I prefer the addition of something used in penetration [toy, fingers, second guy adding a penis - yes I have done threesomes in my past.]
In a discussion with a bunch of friends at a party, the usual question being most favorite and least favorite tended to get men preferring penetrative sex and generally not having a least favorite position [as in hey, sex, what is not to like … more or less] and the women having definite most and least favorite positions. You are going to have a disparity of answers.
If I had to quantify, I would quibble by needing to have categories - being handicapped with some connective tissue issues [joint pain is fairly constant in my life with roving patches of numb from spinal cord damage and spinal stenosis that can change which nerve branches are getting pinched any given day.] Good body days, I can be pretty active and acrobatic, and up for more variance in play [though I never think porn flick acrobatics look fun, and changing positions just when about to get off actually tends to make me stabby] Bad body days, we have to get creative. So any given day it can range from slow and ‘romantic’ with lots of playing with erogenous zones and pillows to prop bodies into various positions to hard, fast and kinky [can range from role play to BDSM though I can point out that with a bad body day, a proper sex swing can allow for good positioning.]
[Though I have never liked screwing in cars or out in nature, sand in tender places indeed, and haylofts are right out :smack: dust and getting poked by sharp straw ends is not conducive to fun.]
Thank you panache and arrendajo. Is tantric and multiple orgasm (I guess they are related) worth learning? I have a book on the subject I haven’t delved into yet. But my gf and you don’t make love as often as I would like. The romance is definitely there, but I don’t know if she puts much stock in new age or nonconventional things like tantra. I have grown up judging the quality of my sex life related to the quality and quantity of my orgasm. I know this is wrong and that, yes, the journey is far more important than the destination. However, I am afraid that when i learn about this new stuff i will feel that it pales in comparison to the sharp release I am used to, or conversely that it will make me devalue the traditional orgasm I thought I knew.
I want the best, and I am willing to work for it. I just want confirmation from people who have been in my shoes that it will lead to something worth the time I would put into it.
Here’s some for ya (NSFW):
Friend said this to me once: “My wife says she’s gonna cut me off. I told her she can’t cut me off it she don’t know where I’m gettin’ it!”
Nice Spit-roast in the second photo!
That shit must be hard to make using only one hand!
This thread title annoys my inner Grammar Nazi. An orgasm is similar to a sneeze or a bowel movement, i.e. something which happens within your body either wholly or mostly on its own, based on various stimuli. There is no real method to it.
Properly, it should be “Favorite method of achieving orgasm with a partner?”
Personally, I like fucking. Seems pretty solid.
You are right. It should be achieving. My apologies.
For me, the absolute best is when both people orgasm at the same time vis a vis PIV.
I’ve only had two GFs I’ve been able to do that with on a consistent basis (Ex wife and current GF). And BOTH were redheads strangely enough.
Serious answer: Start in Missionary, move to side-by-side, end with the lady on top. I like lifting her and can move about in more interesting ways, and it’s easier to pull off a simultaneous orgasm, which is the most fulfilling for both of us.
Joke answer: Blow job as I reach down and whip her quivering bared buttocks with piano wire, her tears streaming down around my engorged member.
Hitch-hiking outside of Morioka, Japan. I get a ride with a local girl who has just picked up her sister from high school. (I add this to the post just to let you know she was not a “pro”.) Instead of bringing me to the youth hostel like I had asked, we go to her home. Her parents are out of town.
One thing leads to another. I’m on top of her and at exactly the right moment, she stabs me (hard) in my right bun with one of those pointed plastic chopsticks that one sees in Japan.
I felt like I had left my body, orbited the moon and finally slowly settled back into myself.
The problem was that when round 2 was about to commence, I couldn’t trust her to not do it again. It felt great the first time, but I did not want to get stabbed again. It wasn’t until round 3 or 4 that I got comfortable again.
Damn. Ninja’d.
If you’re doing it right, the orgasm is secondary to what comes before it and what comes after it.
Wait, what? The woman is supposed to orgasm too? 
Just how many people are involved in your sessions, and do you choreograph the order of their orgasms?
He means dinner, and dessert. Mmmmm…fresh cherry pie…
One…
…singular sensation!
Every time her ankle quakes.
One …thrilling combination
Oh, the Tetris shapes that she makes…!
One smile and suddenly somebody more will do;
and three more in the corner…
…are just trying… to wade… through…
Sounds like Mangosteen was, too.