Don’t worry, this is not a sad thread but hopefully one that will have a happy outcome.
Techs Mex started a thread in IMHO Do you think adopted kids are obliged to search for their biological parents? In which got a little heated – I am good at that kind of thing.
Anyhow, I emailed my intermediary that handles communications between birth parents and adoptees last night because it was too late to call.
She called and had to leave a message. Well I got off the phone with her not too long ago. She said my birth mother had called her about two months ago and wants contact with me, direct. OMG I am freaking out, this is too cool. I knew in my heart that she would eventually come around and want to know me.
I also found out she has told her whole family about me. This is even better because know I don’t fear that she will shy away as much from meeting me. I am not a threat anymore with regards to her parents.
The reason I want your prayers and happy thoughts is, since it’s been about two months since she contacted the intermediary (who no longer is in the intermediary program) I hope she hasn’t gotten cold feet over it.
I am greatful for any positive thoughts in advance!
< still shaking like a leaf over this, man this is one of the best things I have heard in all of my 32 years >