I had a recently conversation about how women get aroused, and I was curious if it was the same or similar for all or most women. What arouses women? What goes through your mind? What happens emotionally? what happens physically? Ladies I would like to hear what you have to say on the subject since you all are the only ones who can give it first hand.
Oh no, Not again.
Omega, if you call 1-900-GET-CLUE, I’ll be happy to tell you about feminine arousal in great detail, for a nominal charge of $4.95/minute.
what do you mean? oh no not again?
I’m gonna assume, without even checking (BEHOLD!! Astro jumps to a conclusion!! that this toppic has been discussed in detail many times before…
what, are you 12? Women want emotional stimulation. They want to know they are sensual, desirable. They want to know you’re interested in them. They want to feel secure that you care about their problems more than this weeks football stats (even if you don’t mean it, sorry ladies just being honest here). Listen, listen, listen. There’s a reason women speak, on average, 5,000 more words a day than men. Just nod your head and hope to get some. (sorry, had to put that in there since women know they hold the true power)
As I was reading through some of the replys to this topic, I began asking myself a few things.
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Why is everyone so bitter and upset about this question? guess what? its a question he had, so he asked it, if you dont like it, shove your sarcasm whe… well you little snippy people seem to know the rest
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Why do people bother with writing sarcastic little quips (i.e… 1900-u-need-to-get-laid) if you think the question is stupid, go somewhere else and write a reply to something you do care about and feel is “worth” your time.
omega, to answer your question from my personal female perspective, What arouses me is intellect, gestures, inquisitiveness and just plain old Attitude. Now when I get aroused, physically I start to feel a warmth flood through me a “fire” of passion, and I feel my V -A-G-I-N-A ( does it upset you people that I say this? I bet it does, maybe you should waste your time and write a snippy little remark to it) grow warm and Moist, and my nipples become erect… as for emotionally, All I can say in short…It feels F**king great!
“1. Why is everyone so bitter and upset about this question?”
Because we aren’t here to talk about dirty subjects to underage children about subjects written extensively before & which have no set answer & are usually none of their business anyway.
handy,
as well said as can be
As for what gets me aroused, I can tell ya’ the diamond earrings I got for my anniversary did the trick. Yowsa! Come here, big boy!
Zette
No, that would be great debates. As far as dirty subjects, i see nothing dirty about female arousal. We discuss sexual topics quite frequently on this board. I do understand the rolling of eyes, the question at first glance looks like a horny toad wanting to get off like we have seen so many times before. But careful reading has not revealed any outward disrespect so I will hazard an answer.
Answering sexual questions to my knowledge has not been curtailed, posting erotica has. I will try to keep this technical.
In my mind, arousal starts as a warm feeling accompanied with a heightened awarness of my body and my surroundings, or at least some details of my surroundings. Emiotionally I usually feel joy and a bit dazzled. My breathing quickens and deepens and my pupils visibly grow. My sense of smell sharpens and I become acutely aware of whatever stimulus started me going, whether it be touch, smell, sound, or visual. I may thrust my hips forward and back or shift in the chair I am sittin in. I become aware of my vagina, vulva and feel it growing wet. My lips get redder and i get flushed. Many women share some or all of these characteristics, they are pretty typical.
As far as female arousal, me being female and all, it is caused by many things. Talking to my lover on the phone or in person can be incredibly arousing. I loved to be touched but anyone that speed toward the clit and nipples without paying attention to the surrounding areas and me in general turns me off. MOnty Python’s meaning of life classroom scene is dead on on this matter. Kissing makes me wet. Seeing how much I turn on my lover makes me wet. Watching my husband do housework arouses me so much I have to take him as soon as he finishes. Visually, the sight of ppl i love turns me on even if someone else with a similar body would be a turn off. Women vary much by what arouses them. Never assume what works for one works for another.
Listening deeply to then and valuing their opinions do arous some women. But remember if you try to fake listening that later there will be a quiz. Many women have perfect memories for conversations. If listening bores you, find someone that doesn’t need this or that you don’t find boring.
Presuming that this thread is legitimat, it would belong in IMHO, but I already owe slythe and TVeblen copious amounts of chocolate and don’t want to run up the debt any further, and besides, it’s already degenerating into a firefight. Therefore, I’m closing this. Apologies to those who attempted to keep the thread serious.