SilverMagicalKey must have stolen some vibes from me…
Some friends and I were last night discussing the proposition of men being more visually-based in terms of arousal (duh!). The conversation later turned to masturbation and inevitably the original conversation thread (ie REAL spoken words guys) collided with the new one. A very interesting and diverse debate followed and I made a mental note to post the question on the board. Lo’ and behold SMK posts a VERY similar piece.
sigh
I’ll pereservere nonetheless and hoep the distinction will be evident.
The question: If you, as a female, were in a situation where you could watch an attractive male masturbate with ** no fear or chance of getting caught [/b} (and no-one else need ever know), would you observe? We’re assuming the subject in question doesn’t know either.
Q2. If so, would you watch out of amusement, curiosity, titillation or some other reason?
i would watch. as i posted on the other board, and tasha was kind enough to point out, i have voyeuristic tendencies. and if the man was attractive it would be an added bonus. most likely i would watch out of titillation (thats a cool word).
Yes, I would. Curiosity and titillation. The guy being attractive would be a bonus, but not necessary for me. I realize this may shock some people here, but I’ve never seen a guy do that. Any guy, ever. So, hence the curiosity. And titillation for the unexpected naughtiness of it, of catching someone in something so personal unawares. Some other reason? I have no idea. I don’t know how it would make me feel really; though I wouldn’t expect any negative feelings about it.
Well, I would watch.The reason being that I think it’s one of the sexiest things a guy can do.I have seen guys do this a few times and I’ve always found it interesting.
Well, I guess I’ll be the only one saying I wouldn’t watch. I don’t find it really sexy or attractive to watch. It is only when it is part of my sexual experience with my SO do I find it exciting. When another guy does it I feel a shock that he definitly doesn’t want anyone watching. i would be bright red if I watched and would be too embarrassed to continue watching.
…now when my SO does it, it drives me mad with desire…
Well, making the necessary adjustment in the gender of the performer, sure, I would watch. You said it yourself, women aren’t as visually oriented as men, but it doesn’t necessarily mean that they aren’t visually oriented at all. I would watch. I would see exactly how she touched herself, what spots she lingered over, I would wonder what she was fantasizing about, and I would construct some sort of fantasy of my own that would tie in with it. I would of course be thoroughly enjoying my own diversions as well. I mean, really. Accepting for the moment that all men are primarily visually oriented, it doesn’t mean that other senses don’t play a role. Would you menfolk pass up the opportunity to listen to someone pleasure herself from the other side of a wall? If you have a fantasy life at least half as active as mine, you could probably get quite aroused from that. Would you pass up the opportunity to smell the delectable odor of an aroused female gently wafting through the ventilation ducts while you lay sleepless in your bed one warm summer night, even if you couldn’t hear her or see her? Would you pass up the opportunity to sit blindfolded and tied to a chair while a woman gently caressed your skin and commenced to- but that’s something else entirely, isn’t it? Ahem, got a little carried away, there. Anyway, the point is that while most women rely on a sensual gestalt rather than just on the visual to craft their fantasies and experiences, if visual (or any other one sense) is all that’s availible, well, we can fill in the rest ourselves if need be.
You know what? Screw this. I’m going to answer as a guy looking in on a girl.
Hell’s yeah, I’d look! Why not? Would be fun, and I would learn lots . . .
Brunetter, what are you doing running toward me with that look on your face? Back, vixen, back! You’re a married woman! You’re not allowed to seduce younger men anymore!
If it was someone I found quite unattractive, nooooooooooo, don’t wanna see it.
However, if he was someone that “did it” for me, of course I want to watch. Not only would it would it be very arousing for me, it would also be a great learning experience. Who better to learn how a man likes to be touched, than by watching him masturbate.
I also love the sound of his breath and moans as he gets closer and closer to climax (purposefully leaving out my endorsement for phone sex - maybe another thread). Watching his every move and how his body reacts really shows you how to please him. Of course, this also works in the reverse (men watching women.)
I think i’d stop and watch, but probably not out of fascination or anything. I’d definitely focus on the look in the person’s eyes and their body language. I am more of the kind of person who likes to read emotions and reactions than look at technique.
I’d probably watch if it was a guy or a girl (No, I am completely straight). I would watch a guy because for the most part you can tell how desperate they are to get some. I would watch a girl for all the reasons you listed.
[hijack] BTW dpr, I fear for Australia if you’re the sane one. [/hijack]
This seriously made me laugh out loud … oh my god!! I think watching women masturbate is a much different proposition than watching a man. Honestly, no offense, but sometimes you fellas look downright silly. Women (from what I’ve seen) are more likely to look sexy and glamourous no matter what silly position you put them in. Don’t believe me? Go watch a woman undress (not a stripper, just whatever woman you can get access to). Now watch a man. Just not the same is it?
PS, I like saying the word titillating. Titillating, titillating, titillating. Makes me want to kiss someone.
As for the question…hell YEAH I’d watch. Because it would be sexy…wondering what he’s thinking about, watching him move his hands, hearing his breathing get rougher… growl
