I have to know-guys always joke around saying that they’d love to catch a girl in the act or watch a girl masturbate. I reason that this might work when watching a porno flick, but how many guys are eager to walk in on their girlfriend masturbating? Most girls would rather not walk in on their guys as far as I can tell.
I love watching my SO masturbate. It’s one of the most erotic and intimate exepriences IMO. Sharing such a private thing with your lover is not only special but highly erotic as it reeks of sexuality and speaks volumes about the person in question.
As for walking in on her, well that’s a bit more difficult as they can hide it so much easier than, say, a guy with a throbbing erection though I’ve done it before, just as I’ve been titillated by whispered stories from the girl tellign me she just had a quick wank behind those bushes over there and no-one here at this picnic noticed a thing.
Mmmmmmmmm.
I’m not sure how I would feel walking in on my hypothetical girlfriend masturbating, but I can tell you that the thought of a woman masturbating is definitly a turn-on. I suppose this is because for a lot of guys any interested woman is a turn-on, and someone who is masturbating sure is interested in something.
Two of my fondest sexual memories are from the lady I dated in NC, who, while I was laying atop her doing what comes naturally, wedged her hand between our bellies and began rubbing her clitoris. That sensation and knowledge of what she was doing was a mind-blower.
Then the most recent young lady in GA, on our first bedroom encounter, as I was coming back from retrieving two condoms from her bathroom (always knock twice) I saw her manually stimulating herself, and her expression of sensuality and openness was another brain explosion. Humina, humina.
Well, I’ve seen my best friend get fingered by her boyfriend before (and I’ve seen her give her boyfriend head before), so it’s pretty much given that A: I’m a hardcore voyeur, and B: I’ll watch anything if it involves either a penis or a vagina.
Oh yeah, we dig it. Because we do it, and if we see you doing it, we know you’re interested in sex!!! That way we know you’re not sleeping with us just to make us happy, but because we’re good. (We males tend to have fragile egos about such things.)
Back when I was giving good phone to a guy I didn’t get to see often enough, I once described a plan wherein I’d tie him up up spread eagled on the bed so he was naked and helpless. Then I’d straddle him so I was just out of reach and masturbate where he could see the whole thing, including my face as I brought myself off without an ounce of help from him.
I was given to understand that this was an agonizingly appealing scene for him to think about. Of course, maybe he was just good at giving good phone, too.