To ** CrankyAsAnOldMan ** Oh my god…that’s so incredibly awesome…thinking of ways to incorporate similiar situations into my life
Oh, yeah, and ** Silo ** that would totally depend. I’d probably be amused or initially disgusted (depending on who it was and where!)…and * then * interested.
** Tuckerfan**, you said…“We males tend to have fragile egos about such things.” Oh, like, what? Girls don’t? Geez… 
Sometimes there’s requests for that too. I’m an exhibitionist and a voyeur.
Oh, and many things are more fun after a joint. 
To the OP: Yes. Yes they do.
And the reverse? Yes indeedly. In my mind: Doing himself and looking at me while I put on a little show. He’s getting himself off while looking at me. The man is so turned on merely by watching me he has to touch himself. Therefore, I am officially a goddess. My ego is fed and I’m ready to go.
[sub]Was that TMI?[/sub]
Fran
Indeed! =o)
** Fran**, you are indeed a goddess. applauds madly
Cranky…we have to hang out sometime
I did the same thing during a phone session. He was trying to resist me so I told him I was going to lay on his bed,run my hands slowly down my body and start touching myself.
Didn’t take long to get him to play after that hehehehehhehehe.
Yep, they do!
However, in my personal experience (others may have had different experiences, of course), many men don’t request it, because they’re afraid the woman will think they’re pervs or something. BUT, that look on their faces when the woman says something along the lines of “hey, wanna watch me?” (You know, that “ohmygodshesgonnaletmewatchshesgonnaLETMEWATCHWOOOOOOOOOOOOO!” look) is priceless. Just priceless. 
Persephone - that’s exactly it. I’d buy you a drink if we lived on the same continent :).
Fran
In a word, yes.
My SO loves to show off, and I like to watch, so everyone in our household is happy.
Oh yes, this guy really digs it.
The following will possibly imply more than you’d like to know:
Anyone else seen those video clips of girls using a sybian masturbation machine?
Persephone, we have so got to do lunch one of these days.
How about Arden R, Perse, Cranky, Hardygrrl and I all “do lunch” and you can all use me to share with each other your special techniques and tips!!!
What I’d like to know is do they dig it DURING sex?
I have a hard time coming the usual route, because there never seems to be enough pressure or time spent or put in the right place. However, during the act I do what Uncle Bill’s girl did/does and ‘help out’ while he’s working. I’m telling you girls, the results are AMAZING! It doesn’t seem to have the same effect without the uh…um…oh… you know…the teamwork part.
I’ve only had one complaint, and it was the guy was kinda freaked I guess that he couldn’t do it all on his own. So guys, I’m asking you, do you really dig that or was this one guy the only one brave enough to comment on it?
Miss Creant, I dunno about other guys, but I’d probably dig it. Like the man said, “Whatever it takes to get you off, baby.” (Though you might wanna say something to the guy before you do the nasty to indicate that you like playing with yourself during sex. If that doesn’t turn him on, you’re probably better off without him.
You might as well help, cause your probably not gonna be able to rely on ME!! :D:D
Like Henry Rollins says, “If a man didn’t have an orgasm everytime he had sex, he wouldn’t be content to say he enjoyed the intimacy of the moment. He’d be tearing around around wreaking havok until somebody clubbed him.”
It’s probably all the tequila I drank last night, but I swear to God, I have no idea what that is supposed to mean.
Anyone?
Just for the record, I’m not playing around down there the whole time. Only until I absolutly can’t wait a second longer.
To answer the OP from my own point of view:
Nope!
Well, not me, anyway.
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