Doesn’t matter. If a woman I was about to be intimate with for the first time looked at me kind of coyly and said in a babyish voice said that she liked to play with herself during sex, I’d probably propose to her on the spot. Once had a girlfriend who could only orgasm in certain sexual positions, and I can tell you it got me really excited when she said it. If a guy’s really interested in you, then he’s not going to care what it takes to get you off, so long as you do get off. Unless, of course, its something really weird like making him dress up in your nightie while wearing golf shoes, then you’d probably freak a number of guys out.
Well, I’m not dating anyone, so I won’t comment on the boyfriend thing but…it’d be much worse to walk in on a girl friend doing that than a guy friend. Nothing against any of the girls I’m friends with, but eek, how embarassing would that be? Maybe because girls don’t talk about it with their girl friends as often? I mean, I’d assume just about all the guys did it from things they’ve said…oh hell, I can’t really explain it, it’d just be worse to walk in on another girl.
Not only do “Enjoy” Masturbating for, and with, my SO (when I have one) I also, very MUCH so enjoy watching my SO masturbating. Whether it be while I sit back on the sofa and watch him lying in bed, masturbating, for me… I enjoy observing the different expressions of pleasure on his face, with different techniques & manipulations, it’s a stunning visual, if you are really into seeing what makes your man tick. (Or wank)
Or if it’s watching/knowing he is masturbating while we are having a sexcapade… definately lets me know how aroused he is, if he’s so hot that he has to give it a wank while he can’t reach my body. And seeing that type of arousal… is definately a turn on. Yum
Just my girly point of view.
Catching a guy wanking solo would be a different story. Not so much of a turn on to me. I’d much prefer he come get me and say - I feel like having a wank, will you come watch? Give me some inspiration? wink wink
Much more appealing that catching him with his pants down.
::Runs off to find a yummy goth boi who has a webcam, and the compulsive urge to wank. heh.::
Elfkin477…sometimes I wish I hung out with friends like yours.
I got an email today confirming that one of my best friends was using two of the birthday gifts she received…
A multi-speed vibrator
A life size cardboard cutout of Chris Jericho.
Hopefully not at the same time but I wouldn’t put it past her ::shudders::
And I’m the freak because I have phone sex. Great phone sex.
I’ve been called a freak for that too. Allbeit, I did not pay for this phonesex, but nonetheless it was always fabulous! So - you aren’t alone in the freak kingdom. heh.
No, I don’t want to see that… I mean, if the question is, “Would you want to watch a woman masturbate?” my answer is nope, I wouldn’t. To me, that’s no fun.
Participating, however, is.
So if I was gonna watch and THEN have fun, I suppose I could put up with it…
*Whammo- ** How about Arden R, Perse, Cranky, Hardygrrl and I all “do lunch” and you can all use me to share with each other your special techniques and tips!!!
Can I come? It’s my post…
quote:** Milossarian- **
Girls and Masturbation: Do Guys Really Dig It?
And the winner of the “Stupidest Question of 2001, Even for MPSIMS,” is …*
Excuse me Milo, but the reply above it was a NO! So not everyone is into it…
Aaaaah warm fuzzy feelings for two wonderful people…
Although in a strange way that leaves me feeling like 'm intruding…
p.s. It’s so wonderful to see you two still so happy.
HA! lurker that was roughly the exact reply I was formulating in my mind as I read this thread.
'specially after reading Cranky’s mind-blowingly descriptive scenario.
I figured the answer would be a nearly 'cross the board “YES” simply because most guys love the sight of a well-stimulated psy. And who can stimulate a psy better than that p**sy’s owner?
Plus it’s a great learning opportunity - pay attention and take plenty of notes, because there WILL be a test later, in the form of putting what you’ve learned to practical use.
Gad, people, WAS it a full moon? All these threads about sex to read first thing on a Monday morning… Lucky for me I had a good weekend, else I’d be getting NO work done.