Well, first of all the Cheetah (I assume you are referring to the models 84-86 in .380 ACP if you are carrying for self-defense) is a straight blowback gun and thus should be immune from limp-wristing, as the delay in action cycling is due strictly to the inertia of the slide and strength of the recoil spring. (Taurus also makes a virtual clone of this pistol as well.) The same is true of the Walther PP/PPK and clones of that pistol (SIG P230/232, HK-4, Bersa Thunder 380) and the CZ-83. I’m not too excited about the .380 ACP not only from a penetration and effectiveness standpoint but also because I find the recoil of this cartridge in a small blowback operated gun to be too snappy for my taste. (There is also the notorious hammer bite problem with the PPK.) The HK P7, using gas-retarded delayed blowback action should also be immune to limp-wristing and is a very compact gun for a 9mmP, although unfortunately out of production and somewhat expensive even in used condition.
If I were looking for a concealable pistol I’d probably go for one of the compact SIG (P229 or P220 Carry) or H&K P2000/P30 Compact. The Springfield XD Compact also seems to have a good reputation as a reliable improvement on the basic Glock design. If you really wanted a subcompact I’d look at the Sig P245/239, Springfield XD Subcompact, or Kel-Tec PF-9, though I think pistols that small are too punishing for regular practice and are too hard to control for repeat shots, so their utility is limited. (So, hopefully, is their necessity.) All of these pistols are noted for excellent reliability and, with proper grip control, should not exhibit a tendency toward limp wristing or any other operator-induced failures. As Airman Doors sugggests, your best bet is to try them out if possible.
On the other hand, a Ruger SP-101, Charter Arms Bulldog, or Colt Detective Special will never have problems with limp-wristing or feedjams (though it is possible to jam the cylinder by impact, requiring gunsmith or factory service to correct).
Good luck to you in whatever you decide on.
Stranger