Besides being the world’s best mom to four of the most beautiful children on earth you are also the best friend, wife, and lover a man could ever dream of.
You seem to have become everyone’s mom or at the very least, the mom every kid would love to have. It often seems that we have six or seven children… not four.
You are good at everything you set out to do and you take on a lot, besides being my wife (putting up with me can’t be easy) and the mother of our children you are also working on getting your degree in computer science. You started studying today, nearly a month before classes even start… you’re such a geek.
What also need sto be mentioned is that you’ve accomplished all of this by the time you’ve turned 31, which happens to be today.
That is so sweet. She both sound fortunate to have each other. Not to mention the fact that you remembered to post a happy birthday on her 31st on the message board.
Gawd, with as much whining as I and a bunch of others of us having been doing lately about the dating world, and how hopeless we feel and is it all worth it. I hope I can speak for at least of few of us when i say, this reminds me that in fact, yes, it can be.
What you guys have is what the rest of us (mostly) are fighting/looking/hoping for, and its so vindicating and inspiring to see you appreciating it, instead of just taking eachother for granted.
Happy Birthday Lola!!!
and Cheers, Feynn. you’re a good man!!!
Chris (suddenly and momentarily humbled before the mightiness of actual, real grown up love)
Last night, one of my “extra” kids asked me what was the best thing that happened in the last year, and all I could think of was my husband, sister and kids. She didn’t think they counted, since I’ve had all of them longer than the last year, but my family and friends are truly what make me blessed. They don’t just pull out all the good things on my birthday, they make everyday count.
Everytime I see Feynn, I see the things that first attracted me to him. I feel like I see him with new eyes everytime I wake up. He’s been 100% supportive of everything I do, and has encouraged me to grow as a wife, mother and person. I would not be the person I am without him. He has helped to create my beautiful family that I adore.
In the meantime, may the two of you continue to love and support each other, and continue to urge each other to grow, and …hey, you already have it all figured out, so I should just shut up.
You two are VERY lucky to have each other.
Best of wishes for the best birthday, and the best year of your life.