For the first time in over 35 years, I have no cats in my home

Our dear Kit-Kat rested on Wednesday evening at the kitty ER after an unexpectedly long bout of throwing up. She was alive when we started driving; 10 minutes later she likely had already died as we hurried up to the counter. She was only 10 years old. We buried her on Thursday in a back yard that has 4 other kitty graves (that I know of).

No longer will I fear the squish of cold cat barf (or worse warm cat barf) between my toes.
No longer will my wife’s nice furniture be shredded, not uniformly, but only in certain places.
No longer will I walk around with pinholes in all of my T-shirts from sharp claws.
No longer will I have the occasional parallel streaks of blood on my arm.
No longer will I wonder if an accidentally unguarded dinner plate has been nibbled on.
No longer will I enjoy the acrid aroma of cat pee around the house.
No longer will I shovel clumps of litter and poop into bags, to be hauled out with the weekly trash.
No longer will I patch the clawed up sections of our walls and door trim.
No longer will I worry about whether the glass of water I left out contains cat spit.
No more will I have to use a fur roller to remove cat fur from dark clothing.
No longer will I hear the meows and scrabbling at the bedroom door when she wants to share my food.

But none of that matters. Life is sad without feline activity in the home!

More than anything, yesterday afternoon when I had some Taco Bell food, I wanted to do as I always have and let generous dollops of tacos and burritos accidentally fall on a small plate that was then placed where she could find it. But that food would have remained uneaten.

Rest well, little one!

So sorry for you loss

I’m so sorry, they sure do take a big piece of your heart when they go.

I’m so sorry for your loss. The house must feel so much emptier now without her. I’ve had cats for … well, since well before I moved out as an adult, many decades ago, and I can’t comprehend what it would be like without one.

Thank you. My wife just found a tuft of her fur on the piano and started crying. She said she can’t go through losing another animal.

I’m going to have to bide my time and sneak in a new cat at some point. This silence is awful.

Trust that the cat distribution system will find you when the time is right.

I will give my Moxie some extra pets in honor of your Kit-Kat and will hold you and your wife in the light.

As hard as it is to lose them, I don’t think I could live catless, not for long anyway. I’m so, so sorry for the cat-sized hole in your lives. I know it all too well and it sucks :frowning: My crew sends quiet purrs your way :crying_cat:

I too am sorry to hear of your loss. As a college-aged guy, I thought I was a “dog person,” but Halloween weekend 2007, I met and adopted two little 2-1/2 week old kitten brothers, who melted my heart and made me a definitive “cat guy.” We had to let one go this past May, but his brother turned eighteen years old this month. I know his time is limited–brother is showing his age–and I’m not looking forward to the second loss…

But I recognize that I am a far richer person for having let them adopt us.

Again, I’m sorry to hear about Kit-Kat.

Tripler
Cat guy.

They never live long enough, but they do leave their paw prints on your heart.