That’s kind of the feeling I got from the OP as well.
Not to be too forward, but may I ask if masturbation is similar for you, parrot? Lube up the dildo and it’s go time? Or is there clitoral stimulation involved?
If it’s just that you don’t dig clitoral attention, I can understand that. Even as a woman who generally enjoys a good pearl rub, there have been times where I couldn’t think of anything I wanted less than someone even THINKING about BREATHING too close to my clit.
If you’re taking plenty of time during masturbation and exploring different types of stimulation but rushing through partnered sex, that would be a bit more concerning IMO.
OK, I did overlook that, but it still doesn’t quite seem to undo the vibe I get from the OP; maybe it’s just an unfortunate coincidence of the wording or something.
Yes, I enjoy sex. Its just that when someone takes the time to attempt oral sex on me, it just doesn’t arouse me. I would like it to, but I was with someone long ago who just (reasons unimportant) didn’t do foreplay either and we just went at it right off, and it truly worked for me.
As for masturbation, I don’t own a dildo (must get one) and clitorally works, though obviously needs lube, but I much prefer vaginal sex than clitoral, its just so much better.
I know women like foreplay and need to become aroused, its not wham bam, but I don’t care for it at all.
I feel like an anomaly as a woman with my lack of interest in foreplay.
I’m a virgin, so I guess my opinion is a little skewed, but I don’t know if I could ever be convinced by a partner that she just “didn’t like” foreplay. I’m pretty sure I’d always have that “she just wants to get it over with” vibe, no matter what.
OK, fair enough; I’ll chalk up my interpretation of the OP as just being an accident of words.
That’s because you are an anomaly. A statistical one at least; I don’t mean you’re a freak or anything, just rather unusual (cheer up though - many people try really hard to be unusual and never achieve it - whereas you’re a natural)
Nah, if I wanted to get it over with, I wouldn’t lie there for 2 hours, he enjoys it so good for him, and I can’t say “its not working for me” because then he might feel he was lacking in that skill somewhat and he isn’t.
Yes, there are so many threads. We’re not Penthouse here, and frankly, though I know it’s a phase, it’s time to bring the phase to an end. Nothing personal, just bad timing on your part.
Let’s not have the entire front page of this forum covered with sex threads.