The answer to the first part of #1 is that we truly don’t yet know. A study done around 1991-1994 showed that when two brothers are both homosexual, the rates were something like 7% for independent birth brothers, 22% for fraternal twins, and 52% for identical twins. (Numbers are from memory and may be off several points.)
This suggests a potential genetic component, but there has been nothing like proof shown to date.
There are a couple of other correlations between physical features and homosexuality, but they are not clearly indicative (and the observations have been challenged), so I will not bring them in, here.
(You might want to limit your use of deviant in this context. Granted its denotation of “differing from the norm,” it still carries a lot of connotation that we would probably want to avoid in a general discussion.)
The speculation for question #2 is that a member of a group that does not engage in child-rearing contributes to the welfare of the group as a whole, meaning that some portion of his genetic thread will be passed on by his siblings. IF genetics plays a part in this scenario, then a periodic recessive trait that would provide additional support to continue the genes of the group makes sense.
There are a couple of species of birds in which only one male sibling of a clutch will mate and the others help provide food for that bird, his female mate, and their hatchlings. A similar event occurs among wolves, in which not every member of a pack mates, although all provide food for the pups.
None of this is conclusive, but it addresses the technical issues raised by your questions. (At which point, we might have been able to deal with this in General Questions, although, like religious questions, many questions on sexuality do tend to migrate to this Forum.