How old are you, anyway? Because unless you live in some white bread place like Maine, what you are describing probably has more to do with age than anything. It certainly wouldn’t be an issue in about 95% of California.
Forget about trying to be what you are not. Embrace your uniqueness. I know these are platitudes. But, you will go farther faster if you learn the trick to do this.
Me and my 3 kids are very pale, nearly white blond and pale blue eyes. Kids teased all 3 when they started school. They were called albinos, and androids and aliens. I spent years talking to them and teaching them to embrace their color and unique look. It took time and it was alot of work. I wasn’t about to let color define them or ruin their self-esteem. You have alot of work to do.
Have you talked to a trusted adult about your color insecurities?
Also, yeah the whitest areas of all also seem the most liberal for that matter which isn’t really a big coincidence.
But really though, I am like still pretty masculine to be thinking that I am associated with the nerds, geeks, hippies and these other white-centric subcultures.
And acknowledging that I have light skin barely gives me a sense of emasculation for that matter. But is getting there.
If anything not having been raised by my dad which I mentioned countless of times and just not having quite an active lifestyle which i am working to get play much bigger roles.
So…you’re insecure in your masculinity due to the lightness of your skin colour? But you’re not getting teased or shamed, in real life, you’re just cooking all this up in your own head, is that about it?
All these coy threads, with all this nonsense wordage spent dancing around your issue with masculinity? Which are all the result of some foolish colour code that exists solely in your sixteen year old psyche.
Okay then, good to know. That’s way too foolish a concept to even bother contesting in my book, but I’m wishing you Good Luck, regardless. (Because if you’re this bent out of shape about such a silly piece of self invented nonsense you’re really gonna need it, in my opinion.)
Right, and well I mentioned that the image of white men is only flawed if you look at it from one way or another. And that’s not to say not other ethnicities don’t have some effimanacy going on, you want effimanacy on the black side? You got Rupaul
You want effimnacy with Asian dudes? Look at Japan this video says it all
Then for the Native Americans, Idk I do know I saw a Native American dude once wear nail polish, put on some lotion on his legs and wearing high heels lol. It was in Austin TX at SSXW Gaming Convention.
So yeah, as much as the media and even the general public want to make it out to be is just purely white men who are getting demonized, pussified and disempowered, you got other races of men being just as pussified. Of course white guys are gonna be the biggest target no doubt.
