Get the hell outta my car, ya hooker! Or, worst. night. ever.

For months, a “friend”, R, from work had been bugging me to go out and hit the GLBT clubs with him. Finally, I agreed to go out for a bit of fun. At the first club we went to, I wasn’t allowed in because it’s 21 and up on weeknights. That was fine with me until R decided that he was going to go in without me and that I could just wait in my car while he picked someone up. Now, it would seem like any normal person would say “Hell no!” but I’m nice and he said he wouldn’t be in there for more than 10 minutes. I sit and wait and wait in a dark, scary parking lot with the doors locked, mace and cell phone in hand. 30 minutes go by, and he returns. He wants to borrow 10 dollars.

Why? To buy some cocaine!!! Strike one.

I don’t touch the stuff, never have, but I had intended to let him borrow a bit of money anyway, so I just went ahead and gave the money to him. He returns with some fellow he has just met. They both clamber into my back seat (like I’m some sort of hook-up chauffeur for drunks) and tell me where we’re going next. All I know is that it’s an adult bookstore, which is fine with me.

I leave the parking lot of the club and get on the interstate, going toward the pornographic emporium. As I drive, I smell a strange smell. I glance in my rearview mirror, and these fucks are

smoking CRACK COCAINE in MY car. Strike 2.

Needless to say, I flip the fuck out: “What do you think you are doing???!!! Are you crazy?”, etc. R’s new buddy replies, “Hey, can you roll that window up? It’s hard to get a hit!” Like I want to breathe his nasty crack fumes. I said, “I don’t smoke in my car. You can’t either.” No response. Since I was on the interstate, I didn’t want to pull over and risk having a cop enter the picture. It was occuring in MY car, after all, and a cop might not understand my lack of involvement.

I rolled my window down as far as it would go, and tried to ignore that awful stench. I never, in my entire life, thought I would ever know what crack smells like. Color me mistaken.

We got to the bookstore, and I told them there would be no more smoking in my car of any sort. They agreed, and I just tried to put it behind me and have a good time. Well, it turns out this is a gay male adult bookstore. Fine for them, but how useful is that for me? Of course, at this point, I should have left them both there, but I didn’t even know where I was well enough to do that.

We leave for the next club, and I can actually get in to this one. Oops! Turns out it’s drag queen night. No real women to be found anywhere. Yet again, fine for these guys, but not for me. R and his buddy run off to dance and leave me all alone. I met some very nice drag queens during the next three hours, but at that point, I just wanted to go home. Finally, I find R again. He wants my keys so he can go “talk” to someone in my car. I tell him there are plenty of places to talk. We argue, and he agrees to meet me at my car in 30 minutes and we’ll leave. He shows up an hour later (yet again, I should have just left him, but didn’t have the heart; we were an hour away from home).

Here’s the real kicker, the one that drove me over the edge:

We are driving away from the club (I am driving, he is too drunk to lift his head) in my (note this) two door car. We are in a rotten part of town, famous for drugs, shootings, and prostitution, and lost. I pull up to a stop sign, and wait to be able to pull out. Suddenly, the passenger side door opens and the unthinkable occurs: a dirty street whore GETS IN THE BACKSEAT!

R was so drunk that he had lifted the seat up so she could get in! My niceness ends. I push the hooker out of my car, and screamed “Get your nasty ass the fuck out of my car, you dirty whore!” She looks confused for a second, and then clambers out.

“I’m not from around here, I’m not from around here!” she says.

Excuse me? You’re not from around here? That’s an excuse to get in my car? This is just what prostitutes do in your neck of the woods?

Lucky for me, I was then able to pull out, my tires squealing and the door still open. I looked in the mirror and saw her pimp running after me, screaming his head off about how I “best not disrespect my bitch!” R didn’t even seem to notice anything wrong afterward.

His next words to me were not, “Oh, sorry about that whole ‘letting a street whore in your car’ thing”, but “Let’s go back to [first club, which is 21 & up]!” Strike three, you’re out!

Sure thing, buddy! Let’s go! He gets out of the car, and goes in the club. And what did I do? I got the hell out of there! I finally had enough sense to leave his ass behind. I found out later that he had to get his mother to come get him, and he never did score. Speaking of things that never happened, I never got any money back from him, either.

The moral? Three strikes are often two too many.

I have never seen a more insufficient adverb.

Wow, you’re really generous…I counted at least eight or nine strikes.

p.s.–don’t count on ever getting that money back either.

You knew he was going to buy drugs, and you gave him the money anyway? This is not only incredibly irresponsible, it also makes it completely your fault when they later started smoking crack in your car.

But maybe you are just a little more forgiving than the rest of us would be in this situation. Then again, you could just be an idiot. You have realized, haven’t you, that this person is not your friend, has likely never been your friend, and will keep using you for as long as you let him, right? You know that this entire post sounds like an ‘After School Special’ about the dangers of giving in to peer pressure, don’t you?

:rolleyes:

Don’t worry, I know that money’s not coming back. Luckily, that means I never have to see that cracked out asshole again. That’s worth every penny in my book.

… didn’t you say you worked with this guy?

Say, it’s not easy to tell… you male or female? Just wondering, 'cause it’s also kind of confusing that you’re going out to the GLBT bars to cruise for chicks…

Few months back, Washte came home on a bus that had some twat smoking crack on the back seat. She told the bus driver but the chicken was too scared to get involved and wouldn’t even radio for the cops. So she went and, ahem, sorted the problem out.

Ain’t nothing quite like my wonderful Oregonian, Cherokee missus in full pissed-off mode.

Ho Wa!

  1. He was going to buy drugs to use in the club, not anywhere near me. I couldn’t even get in the club, remember?

  2. I had agreed to lend him a small bit of money before the cocaine was ever mentioned.

  3. I never gave him permission to smoke anything my car. I never gave him permission to do drugs in my car. In fact, I told him to stop.

Yeah, I know that. That’s why I called him my “friend” and not my friend. Not to mention that this is the only time he used me in any way. I ceased contact with him after that. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice? Not gonna happen.

If I had given in to any sort of pressure, it certainly would. Did I do any of the crack? Hell no. Once I was no longer occupied with the responsibility of driving, did I lay down the law? Hell yes.

When this happened, I was 18, and living in a place that has neither stoplights or actual towns. This occured in a very big city. I had to get home, didn’t I? My only source for directions was this guy. I couldn’t stop anywhere in that part of town and ask for directions at 3 am without begging to get raped or robbed. So rather than being an idiot, I’m quite sure I was just scared. I was in a situation I had never been in before, and had no idea how to handle it. Ever been scared and made a wrong decision? I have.

Told him to stop? :smiley: Why didn’t you beat his ass?

Because I’m a Nice Little Girl ™.

Yeah, I worked with him, past tense. We went out that night in particular because it was his last day before he transferred.

To ease the confusion, I’m B, and I was looking for L or B girls. So, that’s why I was cruising for chicks there.

Um … how long ago did this happen? You say “When this happened, I was 18.”

I just find it weird to be ranting about something that sounds like it happened at least a year ago.

Damn straight. I mean, imagine if - at the age of 34 - I was to start ranting about stuff that happened in my childhood:

[rant]My mother didn’t fuckin’ breastfeed me. The bitch![/rant]

See? Weird.

It would be weirder if you were ranting about her not breastfeeding you at age 34.

:smiley:

All I have to say is that you can’t even SEE ten dollars’ worth of crack. Why would he even bother?

Oh, yeah. And I agree that your friend’s a cocksmoker.

I’m only 19 now. It’s been a month or so since this incident happened. See? Not so weird.

It still pisses me off, so I ranted.

He had more money, but if he spent it, he couldn’t get into the other club we were going to. I suspect he may have performed certain, uh, favors :eek: to get the hook-up in the first place.

I just find it amusing that this: :eek: is the face you use for those other “favors”, considering that :eek: is probably exactly the mouth shape, at least, that he used to perform the favors.

Not that I’d know. :wink: