What do i do
If the nude scene in question contains you but not her then I’d imagine you have some explaining to do.
More a search for opinions. Let me move that over for you.
You have a gift for euphemism.
My guess is that she’s very insecure about her own body.
If she notices you ogling while watching a nude scene that’s going to ignite her insecurity.
Rather than break down and cry about it she obviously would rather pull the “angry at you for ogling” card.
It is her insecurity. For whatever reason, she thinks you are comparing her to those women and she is not meeting the standard. You could be contributing to this if you are making comments about how hot the woman on screen is. Or you could be doing nothing wrong.
Leave.
Is there invariably a nude scene in the movies you pick? Try picking a movie without a nude scene for once.
On the other hand, if she fights with you about nude scenes, and she picked the movie, you are being a huge jerk, by either saying the woman is really hot, or saying something like “Why don’t you moan like that?” If you are keeping your mouth shut during the nude scenes, and not doing anything else that would piss her off, like asking her to jerk you off during the nude scenes, then maybe you need to evaluate the relationship, because it sounds like she is looking for reasons to pick fights with you.
Does she pick a lot of fights over things that seem inconsequential to you, or is this an isolated, weird issue of hers?
If you are not being a jerk, and it seems to be an isolated, weird issue, then I refer you to the posters who suggest that maybe she has some body image issues. I further suggest they may be deep-seated, and you are not going to fix them just by giving her lots of compliments. Do you know if she is, or has ever been, in therapy?
Have you ever considered just asking her?
Definitely what you do is create a new account on a messageboard you’ve never been to before to post your slightly salacious question about your romantic life! That way we can all do the thing we do best, which is to take this sort of inquiry seriously! Good job, everyone!
Perhaps you might start using another pronoun besides “girl”.
I’m going to kindly request that you make another attempt if you want to have a conversation about…this. With a little more clarity and detail next time around. This one is a bit of a non-starter.
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