… how do you let your partner know (and hence let it slip that you’re overdue for sexing)
My favorite lately is “Menstrual Moses hath parted the Red Tide”
… how do you let your partner know (and hence let it slip that you’re overdue for sexing)
My favorite lately is “Menstrual Moses hath parted the Red Tide”
Enter the room wearing this and let the festivities begin.
Meh - as long as he’s cool with having sex while I’m on the rag, then so am I! And he is, so I am! Sure, it’s messy, but just throw down a towel and get to business!
How about - ooh, I don’t know - taking the initiative? Or would that be too stupid?
Yeah really. I just tell him. Or grab him. What difference does it make?
[Grace Jones]
Grrrrrrab him!
[/Grace Jones]
Well, if I had to actually say anything to let him know, I’d just, you know, say it. However, I always sleep naked, except when I have my period, when I wear panties to bed. So, if I come to bed wearing a pair of panties, he knows. And a few nights later, when I come to bed naked, he knows it’s done.
“Hon, I want to have sex tonight!”
“WOOHOO!”
He’d be happy to have it anytime, but I don’t want to deal with the mess, and I kinda like how good it is after a few days off. I also don’t see any reason to hint around the subject – after all, this is the guy I’m living with and having sex with. It’s not like I’m a blushing virgin of 15 or something.
shudder
Call me a prude if you must, but I still find sex during a woman’s period to be icky. I’ve did it once, cause I was in FL for a week and didn’t see her, and when i got back…well, you get the idea. My mind was so fixated on the icky-ness of it that I almost couldn’t finish.
Anyways, none of my girlfriends have had to tell me, as any time we were in bed together I’d want to have sex. If they were still menstrating, they would just say so and that was that.
She said, only as long as he was OK with it. She didn’t just randomly do it.
Actually, I wouldn’t call you a prude, it’s just a preference. If my guy wasn’t into it, then that would be that.
It depends if she wants to or not. It doesn’t bother me either way. Period or no period, if we want to have sex, we have sex; if we don’t, we don’t. Period.
I had to get that last one in there.
“Aunt Flo finally left town.”
Depo is my I-get-no-period friend. I know some hate it and that’s okay, but I love the freedom! FREEDOM!!!
Strangely enough, my ex-girlfriend actually gets hornier during that time of the month. So some sexing was inevitable.
I just say so, or grab him up and get touchy feely. Why beat around the bush?
:snerk:
Oh, and another vote for “just jump him”.
Hm. I just realized my last post had some ambiguity. Let me try again.
Speaking as a guy, my vote would be for “just jump him”. He’d appreciate it if he’s anything like me.
Not to mention that orgasm is a great way to ease cramps.
I have no problem with menstrual sex–neither does my husband, thank goodness!
“I’m not broken anymore.”
which isn’t as good as telling him that I just started: "Guess what? I’m not pregnant. . . "
My problem is that I would probably try to jump him no matter what time of the month it was.
I don’t like menstrual sex, either, and my SO wouldn’t mind it probably.
Funny, that.