Good Vibes Thread! and you won't believe what happened to me last night!

This is the thread to share good vibes! So all those dopers who are a little under the weather or those who just want to share a good story check in here.
Story: Last night my wife and I were grilling out side, just the two of us, when I realized we needed some more stuff from the store. So we both went out, got the skewers for the shish-ka-bobs and headed back. On the way home we turned onto our road and there was an odd amount of traffic stopped at the stop sign. Maybe, 8 cars in total, in a row. I turned slowly onto our road and noticed, three cars back a young woman crying (quite hard) in her car. I for some odd reason did something I really can not explain. I slowed the car down next to the young woman - waiting for the cars infront of her to go and crying really hard - stuck my head out of the window and motioned for her to look. Then smiled and said, “Hey! everything’s going to be OKAY!”

The whole time slowly rolling by. My wife smiled as well, and the girl cracked a small grin as we drove on. Further down the road I didn’t say anything, my wife didn’t say anything, but we both had odd smiles on our faces. Then right before we got home, a little girl, maybe 12, was riding her bike on the side of the road, we did not know the little girl at all, and had maybe seen her once or twice before. When we passed her, she smiled a huge smile and waved! My wife waved back and we just couldn’t believe how good we felt. We spent the rest of the night on the back porch reflecting on not just what happened that evening, but on other times in our lives that we just felt like everything was going good, or things just seemed to be going our way…

So dopers, how do you feel when things are going your way, how often does it happen, and how do you bring our self out of a funk when in one?

Finally, a Happiness thread!!

It amazes my how much smiling and saying hi to someone can improve your mood. Share the love, you’ll be happier in the long run :smiley:

I bought some Reeses PB Cups from the vending machine and two packages fell out instead of one.
Sweet.

What a great feeling, huh Phlosphr?

I love joyous contentment.

Earlier in this week, I heard a co-worker three cubes away say, “Why don’t you blow it out your ass?”

I immediately went over to see if he was okay; it was an uncharacteristic thing for him to do.

“Does someone need a hug, Dave?” I asked goofily.

“Nope, not yet. But if I do, that’s B.A.'s job.”

B.A. is Dave’s cube neighbor and he immediately stood up, grinning over the cube wall. B.A. is one of those guys I like to call “crunchy.” In his early 50’s, vegetarian, does yoga, long gray hair tied back, long gray beard…

“Yep, if Dave needs a hug, I give him one.”

“Really? Are you joking? I mean, his wife only works two floors down. Surely she could give him a hug.” I asked incredulously.

“Nope, I’m serious. It’s my job.” B.A. said, smiling.

Dave nodded and smiled along with him. I walked away, shaking my head.

The next day I walked by Dave’s cube and made a point of sking him if everything was okay. He nodded and B.A. once again poked his head up from his cube.

“Today I’m having a bad day, Gazelle.”

“Could you use a hug, B.A.?”

“Sure could.”

I went right into his cube and hugged him.

“That made me feel better.” B.A. said.

And what do you know, I felt pretty good too.

Hugs are good.

I don’t seem to have that many good vibes… but when the bad vibes get to be too much, MUSIC can get me out of it. I put on my headphones at work, or crank a CD in the car, or play something at home, and all my troubles melt away! :slight_smile:

The other day at the playground, after about 2 hours of constant fun, it was time to go.

My daughter came along tiredly.

My son was stalling and kept on ditching me to go for one more slide.

I was losing my patience. Sitting in the hot sun does that to me.

He was playing with some boys he met, (boys are fairly rare in our personal universe. All the kids his age are girls.) so he had been interacting with them nicely for quite some time. They had some kind of hand held inexpensive game with them.

It was time to go ( before my daughter disappeared for one more slide.) and I did my count.

One.

Two.

He’s at my side. And I am happy. I rarely have to say three and issue an ultimatum.

Then he darts off and I just about …well…have a public parental tantrum. I could feel the veins in my head throbbing. I’m not the sunworshipper that I use to be and I have a headache coming on.

And he runs up to the two little boys he was playing with to say,
“Thanks for sharing your game with me.”

No one warns you of those moments.

That nearly bring you to your knees and wonder just what you did to deserve a wonderful child like that.

Walking to a company birthday lunch at a new restaurant today with a friend from work.

The sky was blue, the leaves of the trees deep green. We can see the ocean about 2 miles away, dark blue going to the horizon.

It was my goal to complete college so I can live and work in this city, I was right in doing so. :slight_smile: It’s so nice to have achieved a dream.

-k

You won’t believe what I thought this thread was about.

The Beach Boys?

I got in touch with an old friend I used to work with, and have set up a dinner date with her next week when I’m in Atlanta. It just makes me feel great; we worked together in a law firm in D.C., and it was the best place I’ve ever worked and I made so many wonderful friends. And now I get to see one of them again!