I’m with Eve Ensler.
“You cannot love a vagina unless you love hair…hair is there for a reason --it’s the leaf around the flower, the lawn around the house” (9, 11, The Vagina Monologues).
I really don’t understand why people (men or women) make such a big deal about it. If you’re comfortable with a teased pube-fro, then I’m comfortable too. If you like it bald, great. I’ll style mine, you style yours, and then we’ll both be comfortable enough for some sweet, satisfying lovin’.
After having had a shaved woman, I must say I prefer it. More responsive when I make my clumsy attempts at oral, and don’t get a mouthful of hair. Yes, I would shave her, and told her she could shave me if she wished. She never did, so I never shaved.
I also will not make an issue of it. If she wants to keep the hair, it’s her choice.