…awake
some will probably think of this as “stirring up old deamons” …but i would like to think that i have grown to be older and wiser. Definetely older!
anyway, i was listening to a lecture the other day and about half of the bloody lecture was the introduction from the lecturer about himself.
He started by introducing himself, all good and proper i suppose. then he talked about the schools he had been to and gotten this or that degree from. After that (about 20 minutes of masterclass behavioral psychologist gratuation stories) he started telling about the various jobs and charity work performed by “me, myself and i”.
yawn, when was he going to get to the :mad: point! i came here to listen to a lecture about constructivism (ill get theese isms someday!) not listen to the story of his life.
that finally over he started the lecture…a mighty fine lecture if i might say so even if i didnt agree with everything the guy said.
now, this got me thinking. a way back i was “debating” various strategies of quoting and other oddities of speech. I asked myself:
“if he wouldnt have introduced himself like he did would i have dismissed his lecture as ravings of an amateur?”
before i say anything else i would like to take you back a few years to when i was taking a course in how to make a speech. my teacher told me that under no circumstances should i apologize before giving my speech. dont say: “i didnt have much time to prepare…blah blah blah” and things like that. that will put the mind of the listener to an alert and negative (towards you) state.
another teacher tried teaching me what “thinking without predudices” is and how to acomplish such a feat. “always question your own opinions” he said. “even question the quesitons of your opinion”.
(hang on, back to topic now)
“wait a minute!” i say. if i can think without predudices, my mind and ideas free from the burdens of steriotypes and labels, why should it matter to the lecturer that i know who he is? what he will tell me will be processed by an independent thought machine that doesnt care what he is, only the content of what he says.
so, the purpose of this “preperation” speech he gave (according to me speech teacher) would be to make the minds of the listeners more acceptable to what he is going to say. something like “belive me because ive done this and that and i know what i am talking about!”.
to me as an independent thought machine (i hope) this is an insult…or at least a waste of time. but then again, the lecturer cant be sure that everyone in the audience is free of predudices and/or bigotry.
there then, this is the sum of all our problems. my view is that people not free of predudices and bigotry shouldnt be allowed to voice their opinion - but how much a bigot am i saying that? so, thats not what i say. i say i will listen to all the bigots in the world, hear all their predudices and “wrong/wierd” opinions (why did i use the word “wierd”?). i will hear them all and hopefully disagree. because if i dont ill be a bigot myself.
(read this last paragraph trough a couple of times to make sure you got what i am trying to say)
the question i need to ask myself is: “can i afford to be misunderstood”, or as the poet said: “im just a soul whose intentions are good. oh, lord. please dont let me be misunderstood”.
reflecting on my own OP here i realize i did not make proper introductions to prepare you for what you are reading - yet, i am not going to scroll up and add that to the top of my post because then this comment will not be needed.
possibly i could have made proper introductions, to make your mind more acceptable to my “logic”…but as i said earlier, i find that insulting to your criticizing tought process.
bj0rn - take care…