Classic guitarist joke:
Q: How do you get a guitarist to stop playing?
A: Put some sheet music in front of him.
That works for me too, even on keyboards.
** Read WordMan’s post several times. ** Read it a few times now, and read it again in a few weeks, and then in a few months. It’s good stuff.
You picked a great instrument for an adult to learn music on! With most instruments, most people have to study seriously for years before they’re not painful to listen to. With guitar, you can rather quickly get to the point where you can strum simple songs and it’s not only not painful, it might even be enjoyable to others. Especially if someone can sing along.
Learning as an adult is difficult. Kids have these advantages:
- they have lots and lots of free time
- they have the brains of children, which are simply incredible at learning quickly
- they do NOT have highly developed judgement, so they can be happy and feel really good by just doing something simple.
IMHO, the third point is BY FAR the biggest hurdle for most adults. We’ve listened to so much music all our lives, even if we’re not at all serious about listening, we’ve developed remarkably sophisticated judgement about what works and what sucks. And frankly, at first, most of what you’ll try to do will end up in the latter category, by those standards. So, my PRIME RULE for learning as an adult:
Cultivate your inner child!
Really. If you can find a way to enjoy your progress, and spend enough time, you’ll get better steadily.
A couple other suggestions that I believe WordMan left out:
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Find a way to play with a mentor, regularly. Instruction is great, but a half-hour a week isn’t enough. If you can find someone, like a neighborhood teenager who’s cool enough not to feel uncool playing with a grownup beginner, to meet with regularly and spend at least an hour each time, it’ll be a big help.
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Put your guitar where you’ll pick it up a lot. Invest in a cheap guitar stand. Do NOT keep the guitar in its case. And PICK IT UP A LOT. 5 minutes 10 times a day works a lot better than 50 minutes once a day!
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Once you learn a couple chords, practice the transition between the chords. At first it’s hard enough just making the chord shape and strumming. As soon as you have that a bit down, really work on going from one chord to another. Pick any two or three chords that you can play in succession, over and over, until everyone in the house goes nuts (and then find a room). Good timing can’t happen until you can transition between chords easily, and timing is everything. Far, far better to have a total of 4 chords you can transition between, than 12 chords you can’t.
Regarding instruction: I’m self-taught on keyboards (piano, electric piano, organ, synthesizer) and guitars (nylon string and steel string, acoustic and electric, solid body and hollow body electrics, and both with a pick or fingerstyle). Well, people who should know, say my keyboard technique is pretty good, though I never studied it. For the most part, the right way is logical.
But on guitar, I got started on several bad habits, and spent decades unlearning those bad habits, including how I held a pick and how I used my fingers in fingerstyle. I’m still battling some of them.
Conclusion: at least get a few lessons, or make sure you have a mentor who has a clue.