No whoosh there.
I think a lot of people, even black people, were ready to giv her a pass over “nigger”. I know that for me, I just assume everyone over a certain age is quite familiar with the word. It would be more shocking if she hadn’t said it. So I was actually relieved when she owned up to it…even though the way she did it was dumb.
However, the having-people-dress-like-slaves thing is real hard to overlook.
I bet she’s eating an entire tray of deep-fried macaroni and cheese right now.
The actual stuff in the lawsuit (including the wedding bits) were from 2007. The “nigger” comments were only tangentally related to the actual suit, which was against one of Deen’s restaurants rather then the woman herself.
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Thanks for that.
I didn’t know that the woman who brought the suit is white. So I’m glad I actually got the–wait for it!–straight dope on this.
I expect the usual “whatever happened to freedom of speech?” crap to start from the usual people who don’t quite grasp the concept that it doesn’t mean freedom from any kind of backlash. (That’s a notion that many on both sides of the political spectrum seem to misunderstand.)
I’m just surprised that it’s this that’s taking her down rather than her sitting on the diabetes news, though I always expected her to come out with a Paula Deen Cookin’ for Diabeetus book at some point. (I still think she got diabetes from improper relations with Wilford Brimley.)
Then I suppose hiring really skinny Jewish people wearing stripped pajamas as servers for the Nazi themed party isn’t going to happen either.
Well, the spot for the flagship stereotypical, home-cookin’ middle aged Southern woman in pop-culture seems to have just opened up. So I guess one of those other fifty woman will get their chance.
Heh, my gf and I called she’d be white before we saw the article. We knew a lot of woman of Deen’s generation and economic background in Northern Florida who, while otherwise nice people, had a lot of nostalgia for the South of their childhoods and a resulting…ambivalent attitude towards the Civil Rights movement. While they managed to keep it more or less under wraps while black people were around, they literally seemed incapable of helping themselves from sharing racist jokes and anecdotes when talking to other whites, even whites they knew were unfomfortable with it.
Even Deen’s attempts to excuse herself are the same, it’s definitely a “type” down here.
Ah, a simpler time.
I guess I kind of caution myself against viewing people through these kind of generalizations? My life has been peopled with women who share Paula Deen’s background and folkways. I’d like to think they aren’t all daydreaming of me dressed up like Aunt Jemima when I say hello to them.
Not that I’m saying I’m shocked about these allegations. I’m just saying that a girl can make herself go crazy assuming people align with the worse of their “types”.
I was willing to give her the benefit of the doubt until I read some of her testimony.
I’m not racist but my husband is so that’s OK??? Seriously???
You guys might not believe this, but right now, right outside my office in Burbank, CA, there’s a guy with a big sign that reads: I LOVE PAULA DEEN It’s time we take back our country.
I’m not kidding. I felt like saying, “Hey, buddy. Where’s your hood?”
He’s probably a shill for Big Butter.
I didn’t say they were. Just that those who were racist seemed to have a similar way of showing it, and a similar pattern of behavior (the “I hear these jokes from my husband, he’s the racist one” is another thing I heard more then once).
Certainly there are plenty of older, professional, upper middle class white woman in the South who aren’t racist. But for those that are, the shared experience of growing up in the Jim Crow South, with family members who were committed to segregation and then having the world more or less turn against that view seems to have created a weirdly consistent pattern. A kind of conspiratorial racism.
Exactly. I appreciated her honesty in owning up to having said the word in anger decades ago and having learned since to not say it any more. People learn and change. But that wedding stuff is … wow. Uh no she aint larned nuttin. Might not be possible for her to. Butter brain is the clinical diagnosis I think.
That isn’t it. It was a show about entrepreneurs. It featured Paula, Taryn Rose (shoe designer), and the Sugar Rush guy who makes cakes. Paula didn’t cook anything, just told her sob story about being broke after her mean ol’ husband left her with two little boys and no resources but her cookin’.
On Biography, the boys were in their early twenties when her sandwich-making and cafeteria-managing businesses went big and she divorced her husband’s sorry ass.
Edit: or was it the Sugar Rush guy mixing up pound cake?
I agree completely… had she sworn she had NEVER used that word I would know for sure she was lying. I really doubt there are many people on this board who could honestly say that the word has never crossed their lips. It is the context that sunk her.
I come from a white family from the South, and there is no question that two generations ago that was the standard term. My grandfather finally came around to calling black people Nigro’s. He also was a well loved doctor in rural Tennessee who was one of the few who would treat the poor black population (he would frequently get paid in eggs).
I just uttered the word a week or so ago. I was telling someone about an expression my Grandpa used to use. If someone had a family member who seemed to not match the rest of the family (darker, curly hair, etc.) he would say “there must be a nigger in the woodshed behind the family tree.” I didn’t say it in a way to try to offend, nor did I direct it at any individual. I hope it doesn’t make me a racist to provide a historical quote/anecdote. It was used more to explain that there could be more things in the gene pool than normally mentioned.
Is this the part where I’m supposed to say that many of my friends are black?
That’s funny, I thought she was a vampire. Whenever I see her on the cover of one of her magazines in the checkout line, I lose a piece of my soul.
Well, sure, there are two ways it’s okay for a white person to say nigger - when singing along to Tupac and when you say “Y’all, Paula Deen just got busted for saying nigger.”
(Ugh, my brain doesn’t even like to think that word.)
ETA - I’ve always kind of liked her creepy magazine pictures because I figure she’s just like me and always takes horrible pictures and so she tenses up and puts on a really weird smile and they have to Photoshop around it or something. I recognize another member of the sisterhood of awful pictures.
Can I get a summary of this somewhere?
I got that she admitted in a deposition to saying “nigger” in her life.
She has an employee suing her, her restaurant, and her kids for how they treated said employee over the past 5 years.
She held a dinner party of some sort where the blacks had to dress as slaves?
Sorry - but searches right now put me into so much commentary, a quick summary is greatly appreciated.
Shakes, I think what you meant to say is that “Paula Deen is an oblivious racist.”
We’re well into a few decades of it not being okay to drop “nigger” in a conversation, and laugh at racist and homophobic jokes, especially if you’re in the public image business. This isn’t some poor cornpone grandma at a family reunion. This is a businesswoman who negotiates hefty TV and restaurant deals.
Paula Deen clearly thought that everyone was in love with her and her folksy ways. Guess what? Not everyone likes that schtick, and you have to be fifty shades of tone deaf to realize that it’s best to keep your racial slurs and antiquated view to yourself (and perhaps your close circle of racist friends and family).
I don’t know if I was willing to forgive her casual racism, monstro, as much as I was unsurprised by it. And the casual Klansmen who are up in arms about how uppity Negroes are taking down yet another innocent White woman can calm down. After the tearful Oprah interview and the soft-lit redemption special, she’ll be back. Maybe not on Food Network but somewhere else. She just has to serve a term of exile, craft the correctly worded confessional, found the Paula Deen Southern Poverty Law Center, and she’ll be golden.
I really don’t know how anybody can leave the house in this day and age with their racism hanging out like that, instead of neatly tucked away. It seems Sampiro’s claims about her intelligence are fairly accurate. Let that be a lesson to all others!
I watched the original apology video, and I do admit I feel a little sorry for her. She seems genuinely contrite and humiliated. I can certainly forgive her, but forgiveness doesn’t entitle you to a lucrative TV contract. The funny thing is, I suspect that the people who have decided to not renew her contract were probably on the fence about her given the diabetes and general unhealthiness of her cooking. This was purely a “don’t embarrass the brand” “dismissal,” if you can call it that. Folks who are this clueless about racism are bad for business. I am certain she’ll be back on TV. Dog the Bounty Hunter is back on TV already, isn’t he?