Bullshit. Makes about as much sense as arguing that any man that does it voluntarily is a pansy. If Karana wanted me to buy tampons, he’d have given me ovaries. I already stated I’d do it if she’s physically unable to do it herself. Otherwise, I ain’t gonna. If you wanna call me out over it, start a pit thread.
Well, I’m certainly not going to start a Pit thread, but I’m not talking about you going out and making a special trip for it. I should hope you don’t make her go out for special trips when you need something.
These are the times when I ask my SO to get them:
- Cramps are so bad that it hurts too much to go out.
- I’m running out or have run out and he’s going out anyway.
- I can’t get to the store for whatever reason but he can.
Otherwise it’s not like we’re both just sitting around at home and I ask him out of the blue to get me some tampons. So you’re saying if you two were at home and you decided to go to the grocery store to pick something up and she asked you to get some tampons, you’d say no? That I think is rude.
I can’t imagine making a woman do anything. Not sure that is even possible for an American male. Definitely not going to even ask her to go get something I need, but am too lazy to get myself. If she’s dating me, she knows I don’t do tampons under ordinary circumstances, and is expected to plan accordingly. Such needs are easy to anticipate.
When I was a kid, I’d have rather chopped off my own head with a rusty dull butter knife then buy mom’s woma-stuff.
As an adult? Not only would I go to the store shopping for tampons, but I’m just enough of an evil chauvinist misogynist asshole to corral the nearest female employee loitering near the feminine section and query her on it. “Should I get the turbo-applicator? Or should I get the mega-absorbant? What about the Ultra-inserter? Whatcha think? My friend’s about your height. How old are you?”
I know there are about eleventy-billion women who are going to hate me, but this is revenge for that time mom gave me $10 and said, “get me some tampons.”
Women have brought this on themselves.
I kid, I kid.
I had a whole long reply written out for you Oakminister, but you know, whatever. I’m not dating you so what do I care.
just jumpin’ in to answer the OP…
yes…I can and will, if needed buy anything my loved ones need…
ymmv,
tsfr
My husband went to the store when I had a bad urinary tract infection* and bought me a bottle of UriStat, an OTC painkiller for such situations until you can get to the doctor. When he returned home, he mentioned that a guy ahead of him in line laughed at seeing him buying this (“whipped” was the comment, I think), so he dressed the guy down verbally, saying obviously he couldn’t keep a woman long enough to realize that’s a kind and human thing to do for someone you care about. The guy skulked off, and the female cashier grinned and gave my husband a thumbs-up.
Dammit, I forgot the “*”: “Which he went to buy because he was having sex with a woman, and such things can happen to her when you’re having a vigorous sex life, you know.”
Ah yes, the petit “You did this to me, you bastard!” that paves the way for the grand.
Not that I minded the cause, not at all, just the effect - brought on by that and a quirk of my anatomy. Thank whatever powers may be, it’s gone away in the intervening years.
I just gotta hijack this thread for a moment, because it reminds me of the time I had to go purchase some birth control. At that time, I was using the contraceptive films, but on occasion, DH and I would use a condom, just so I’d get a break on the messy end of things. As it happened, we had run out of both films and condoms, and were low on KY as well. I had to fight laughter at what I imagined the cashier was thinking as she rang up a 24-count box of films, a 24-count box of condoms, and a large tube of KY. But that’s not the funny part.
Oh, no, that’s NOT the funny part.
The funny part is–I would soon discover that, at the time of this purchase, I was already pregnant!
Karana … the god of storms in EverQuest?
As if that doesn’t happen enough as it is.
Yup. Oakie was a raid level druid. In the EQ2 reality, the original was last seen kiting Doomshade over the horizon right before the moon blew up. A dour dwarf read the legend, and assumed the name for a bit, but EQ2 Druids just weren’t the same. Ended up playing a pally and a warlock instead, then left Norrath for Paragon City. Was really looking forward to Vanguard, until I learned they let SOE back into the picture.
Given that menstruation is kind of a storm of blood, it’s not a bad god to invoke in the situation.
Yep, I’ve done it before. It’s not my favorite thing to do, but hey, if she can pick up condoms, why shouldn’t I pick up her goods too?
Pretty much nails it. But like all the other guys, you better be very specific with what you want. And I’ll empty the bathroom trash. I’m not squeamish.
I’m female, and I just wanted to say that if I’m ever in an emergency situation where I had to send someone else to the store, I’m not going to be picky about whatever they bring back. Bring me some cotton with a string, or cotton with an adhesive strip, and get whatever’s cheap!
This is why razor blades cost £0.03 a pack, of course. :dubious: