It’s nice to have your crush like you back, but when you have no feelings for this person who has a crush on you when you fell nothing back, it gets tiring.
I know a boy who has a massive crush on me, and doesn’t hide it. He tells me I’m beautiful all the time, that he would kiss me, everything. It’s annoying me, I want him to leave me alone. But, even if I told him to, I think he likes me too much to even care I don’t like him back. Trust me, you don’t want someone to have a crush on you, because admiration can turn into obsession.
Count yourself lucky.
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My first girlfriend in high school aparrently stalked me before we dated and after she dumped me. I found this out 20 years later when we met up after seeing each other on FB. Before we met, she befriended a girl she didn’t even know just because that girl had a locker next to mine. She was always late to her first class because it was across the school from my locker where she would hang out to “accidently” run into me. I was clueless. After she dumped me (shortly after prom) she would drive past my house which was miles out of her way. Keep in mind that this was over the summer after I had graduated (she was a year younger than me) and through the next school year before she left for college.
After 20 years, she is still a very sweet lady and still a bag full of crazy.
When I was maybe 12 or 13, I was stalked by an extremely creepy guy in his 20s, made all the more creepy by the fact that he was missing one thumb due to a self-inflicted gun shot.
I will never understand why my mom and dad did not just tell him, “Your fascination with our daughter is completely inappropriate. Please leave and don’t come back.” Instead, they let him hang out at the house (and expected me to entertain him). Ugh. I will never forget that feeling of being trapped. He was utterly repellant.
Yeah, the line forms on the left, take a number…
Actually, once long ago one of my staff did become overly enamored. She was a rather pathetic soul, less than zero self confidence, not attractive, recent immigrant living with her brother and his wife, I suspect she was very dominated at home. Anywho, I treated her like a human being, was probably the first person to do that. She mistook it for the possibility of affection. Many gifts followed, I did not do anything to encourage her, and told her that she really needed to stop. Soon I transfered to another job and didn’t hear any more about it. Hopefully she moved on without too much fuss. Yikees.
There was a guy who was in love with me, but I wasn’t in love with him. I think “obsessed” may be a litttle too strong a word to use, though. Though he did say he wanted to move here from Australia to be near me. That was a little creepy. That, and the stuff he did to me in his hotel room on his last night here…
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That does sound seriously bizarre, considering his age and your age. Did you ever ask them about why they let it go on?
The exhusband of someone I dated for less than 2 weeks has been obsessed with killing me for over 20 years now. First couple of years I tried to appease him because I knew he was crazy, now I confront him, taunt him and challenge him everytime he looks at me. His ex went into some kind of identity change program. Sometimes I wish he would come at me with a knife or something so I could use the self defense option. Instead he covertly keys my car and things like that, really a thorn in my side when he is out of prison.