I think Tropes get a bad reputation. They are thought of as cheap shortcuts by the entertainment industry.
Aren’t they just shared experiences? We can all relate to? Have you ever had an experience that would qualify as a Trope if it was in a film?
I don’t think your definition works. They’re not shared experiences; they’re shared imaginary experiences created by people with no imagination. Think of them as pre-digital Xerox copies: the more they get copied, the more corrupted they become, until they’re pretty much useless.
From TVTropes:
Tropes are not the same thing as cliches. They may be brand new but seem trite and hackneyed; they may be thousands of years old but seem fresh and new. They are not bad, they are not good; tropes are tools that the creator of a work of art uses to express their ideas to the audience. It’s pretty much impossible to create a story without tropes.
The OP and the first reply represent opposite ends of one dimension one could measure tropes on.
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I’ve been in varieties of the Secret Relationship Trope multiple times. People were trying to keep their relationship secret but for some reason, which for the life of me I do not understand, three different times they told me and expected me to keep their secret. And one time it turned into the ‘everybody knew’ variety, and another time the ‘nobody cared’ variety. But the third time people finally guessed after the couple announced that they were married, and then they told everybody I knew all along so then everybody was mad at me for not blabbing. This is why you should run from a trope as fast as possible.
A few years back, I was acquainted with a girl who shared my exact same birthdate. Not birthday–that’s (relatively speaking) a dime a dozen. I’m talking birthdate.
I once dated a woman who was born on the exact same birthdate as me (same day and year). We also used to get allergy shots at the same hospital as kids (but never met back then).
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Well played!
Is there a trope about “fantastic coincidences” (that most people have in real life because we have so many possibles?
When I went to middle school there were, in the entire school, only three people with my first name in the school, and one with a shorter version of the same name. We were all in the same class, despite there being four classes in the grade. One of them had the same birth date as me.
Wow, this is a very odd, coincidental ninja’ing (Unless I’m getting whooshed by a meta-joke on tropes I’m not getting).
As for me, I’m an overweight, often clueless, pretty lazy guy married to a woman out of my league. That’s your classic sitcom setup right there.
My wife and I worked together when we first started dating, so we decided we should keep it quiet for a while.
One day, we were walking into a store, and walking out at the same time was… our boss!
When we fessed up that we were seeing each other, he grinned and said, “yeah, I know.”
Many years ago while living with a boyfriend, we both lost/quit our jobs and didn’t want to tell each other so both pretended to go to work every day for about a week until the truth came out. I don’t know if that’s a trope, exactly. Maybe more of a sitcom situation(?)
Of course, once you find yourself in a trope there are a limited number of conclusions ahead. Watch any sitcom and you’ll see there’s no escape.
All 3 cases I mentioned were people working together. I didn’t work at the same place as any of them but I knew people who did, and there was some overlap among them. So I wasn’t some kind of neutral outsider. Listen up co-workers who want a secret relationship, please just keep it to yourselves.
Individuals pretending to work has come up in sitcoms. I don’t recall it happening with both people in a couple, but it has some hints of the Gift of the Magi trope, just no gifts at all in the end.
This was done on The King of Queens. In flashback Doug explains that he didn’t actually have a job as an IPS delivery man when Carrie agreed to marry to him. He had been pretending to go to work there and hung around in the company locker room until eventually he convinced them to give him a job.
I feel like the double unemployment situation has been done, just nothing coming to mind at the moment.
Without going into revealing detail, let’s just say one of the tropes (or more like a cliche) you would swear was of the “shared imaginary experiences created by people with no imagination” actually happened in real life, just as if lifted word for word from a bad Hollywood screenplay. So, even some situations that sound improbable or implausible have in fact occurred.
Back when I was in the Navy, there was a bad equipment problem onboard a ship which resulted in a few deaths and injuries and some significant and costly equipment damage.
Maybe a year later, I was on a business trip at the same time that the investigation was ongoing and I was staying at the local officers’ quarters. At breakfast one morning I was having breakfast at a table with a much more senior officer who had some insight into what had happened during the incident. So he was telling me about this, almost sotto voce, and he quite seriously said “and you didn’t hear this from me…”
The only thing missing was the quietly ominous soundtrack music, and I recall thinking that at the time he was saying that.
This thread brings to mind the aluminum Christmas tree trope: