Me neither, and I’m 48 years old. For me, the late 80s were not “a time of orgies and whatnot”. They were a time of late hours in physics grad school with no women anywhere in the vicinity.
Monthly for about 10 years.
Atlanta clubs and house parties.
Houseboats tied together at Cocktail Cove on Lake Lanier on any given Saturday during the summer.
Swinging is sex with various others you are not committed to. Group sex is sex with a group of people at the same time, with the strong possibility that you will have relations with more than one person during the same session.
Nope. One-on-one guy here. I like the plain stuff so much, I just never really went on to more.
To give you an example, I was passing a fancy hotel in New Hampshire just last week. It was one of those old-construction buildings that looks like a huge club-house of a high-end golf club. In front was an announcement sign listing two things:
Vacancy
Ox Yoke $56
And my first thought was “Ox Yoke? Oh Hell No! Y’all can stable Elsie & Bessie round back for One night, Farmer Joe. Bad enough to have to find smoke-free rooms, but farm-animal-free rooms…? Nuh-uh.”
But with the help of Google, I think I figured out what they meant.