So, a couple of weeks ago I found out my ladyfriend was cheating on me - with my cousin - my 19 year-old-cousin. I am 27. My ladyfriend is 24. What is wrong with this bitch? I go away to school and she has to cheat on me with family? Now, this fucking cunt tells me that she is sorry and that she made a big mistake. She really loves me because I am stable and really care about her. Translation I am not a drug user like my cousin and I have enough money to take care of her. Fuck that. I hope she gets hit by a comet or something.
The problem is I stil love her, which makes me hate her more.
I use the words bitch and cunt to describe this woman, not women in general.
Normally I would feel bad about laughing at the misforture at others. I feel oddly content after my laugh this morning though. I figure that is because at least one of the following is true:
Where is the sympathy? This is a terrible situation and should be met with all the empathy and good wishes we Dopers are capable of. Why, oh why, are all the responses mean?
I must say that I’m kind of disappointed in what I’m seeing here. I never knew the board was so bloody cliqueish. Any other poster, or really even a guest, would get sympathy. Because it’s Kel, then fuck him.
A lot of you dopers are really nice people, and I’d like to think that this is an aberration. This sort of behavior just really churns my stomach.
Karl’s story is bullshit. He’s been universally beaten up on the boards for his fuckheaded attitudes. Very few of which he even bothers to defend. Was he really posting this story with the expectation of sympathy? I say no.
Look at his other posts. He has a history of starting threads on inflamatory topics and standing back to watch others do the dance. This is just another in the series, and I say it’s bullshit.
you know HarborWolf, to a certain extent, you are right. It does seems wrong that a complete stranger would get far more sympathy than dear Kel. What can we infer from this? Since my experience is that most dopers are pretty damn good people, my take on this is that Kel has exposed himself to be enough of an unlikable person, that many people have no problem kicking him when he’s down, and no one else (yet, including you) has managed to display much sympathy for him.
here, I’ll be the first. Kel, that really sucks, man. Something like that will invariably hurt like hell.
Now, you do seem to be putting the blame entirely on her (naturally, since this is the pit). Can you take this opportunity to examine yourself and see what you could have done differently to avoid this hurt?
You didn’t talk to her much about under what circumstances you would shoot her eventual children, did you? Just asking.
No probs. I do consider myself a ‘nice person’, hence the sympathy. However, the stability line is either manufactured to get a response or shows an incredible lack of self-awareness. Either way, good for a giggle!
