I’m asking for everyone’s help in overcoming a case of paranoia. It’s hard to describe what I’m afraid of, but it left me cowering under the covers at 2:30 in the morning, afraid to breathe, so it needs to be nipped in the bud. I think that maybe if I describe what scares me, maybe other people with similar fears can describe what they’ve done to cope/cure, or someone can describe good techniques for this sort of thing. I’d like to avoid medication, if possible - I’m not hurting anyone, just exhausting myself, and I’m not hearing voices, I swear.
It started when I was a small child, and it was the weirdest thing. We had cable that went out on occasion, and when it did the cable box, instead of showing the channel number, said “nd” in its little LED box - for no data. That scared me to crying at the age of four, not because I was missing Sesame Street or anything but because the cable box was saying something it usually didn’t, that I couldn’t understand, that didn’t make sense to me (then, anyway).
Then, when I was a little older, my dad got me a shortwave radio. It wasn’t very wide-spectrum and didn’t pick up much besides BBC World and evangelical stations, but it was fun to listen to at night. Fun for a while, anyway, before it started scaring the shit out of me. I listened with all the lights on, scared to sleep in the dark for no reason I could discern - just an instinctive emotional response. The beeps and clicks and people reading random numbers and odd static - it seemed like something I shouldn’t listen to, something I’d get in trouble for listening to.
There are other things, even less sensical than being scared of radio stations. “Revolution 9,” from The Beatles’ White Album, scares me. The screams, the backwards music, the odd muttering, it all scares me. The fear had gone away for a while when other things in my life took priority, but when I was in the library one day I ran across William Poundstone’s Big Secrets, filled with chapters on backwards messages in music, numbers stations, subliminal messaging… it fascinated me, but it scared me too. I tried confronting it head-on - listening for the sentences in Revolution 9, saying “that’s a sound effect, they pulled that off of the radio,” and so on. It didn’t help any - emotionally, I seemed afraid John Lennon was going to come back from the dead and kill me for discovering some secret message no one was supposed to find in the music. I know that’s insane. Logically, I know these are irrational fears and I have nothing to be afraid of. But knowing that doesn’t help.
So, last night. I was on the Beatles Anomalies page, looking through the songs and listening along, and it’s fascinating, but troubling somehow. Then I went into GQ and was reading the “secret death ray” threads (they made those rays in the 1920’s, if I recall correctly), and in-between the jokes, the few serious posts talking about the Tesla experiments and so forth, and looking at a page on Tesla’s work, I got scared again. The hours went by and I avoided going to bed so I wouldn’t have to turn off the lights. Some emotional fear response in me just snowballed out of control, and there I was, cowering under the covers, afraid to leave any part of me exposed for fear of being “caught,” whatever that means. Do you know the Far Side cartoon with the “monster snorkel,” so kids hiding under the covers could still breathe? That was me as a kid, except it wasn’t monsters - it was (is) people, out to get me for knowing something I shouldn’t.
I know this is all horribly irrational. But I find these things amazing, and I don’t want to shirk away from them. We’re about fighting ignorance here, and there’s a part of me that’s horribly ignorant and frightened of things it shouldn’t be, and I want to fight that. So if you think you can help me, please try.