Help me identify a song from a movie.

Everytime the original version comes on the radio, I think back to hearing a slow, sad version in a movie. I can’t identify the movie, but I can certainly feel the mood.

The song was “If I can’t have You.” It is a depressing song that is sung to a hip, upbeat rhythym. In the movie, it was sung slowly and quite mellow in the background while a female is giving some sad information. It was SO FREAKING DEPRESSING the way it was down. I can’t think of the movie. It is background music for either a painful breakup or someone telling another that they have a dreadful disease. Something in that vein.

Can anyone help with this obscure reference? The gauntlet is thrown!

Are you thinking of “Saturday Night Fever”?

I never saw SNF, or it’s sequel, Stayin’ Alive, but my Yahoo search says the song is in both movies. If I were to hazard a guess, though, it would be for Stayin’ Alive, simply because I think the upbeat version I hear on oldies radio is the one from the SNF soundtrack.

Don’t get me started on the notion that records made during the disco era can possibly be “oldies”.

Yahoo also reports the song appearing in Big Daddy, an Adam Sandler vehicle, IIRC, which I also didn’t see.

Hmmm…No on the Travolta flicks. Big Daddy? I have seen that movie and that is probably it. It is probably played when the kid is getting taken away. I’ll check.

Although I’ve never seen SNF, my husband was apparently subjected to it a total of five times by various dates who wanted to go see it in the theater, and claims it was in SNF.

He refuses to see Stayin’ Alive. I can’t imagine why…<insert evil grin here>

“The Adventures of Buckaroo Banzai”? - it gets sung near the beginning of the film.

go to http://www.cdnow.com and search for the song. i think it’s called “if i cant have you” actually…

here ya go:

Bee Gees Greatest If I Can’t Have You
Tales Of The Brothers Gibb If I Can’t Have You
Big Daddy (Soundtrack) Soundtrack If I Can’t Have You
Jerry Braxton Jerry Braxton If I Can’t Have You
Brown Dots For Sentimental Reasons If I Can’t Have You
Charlotte Charlotte If I Can’t Have You
Edson Cordeiro Disco Clubbing V.2 If I Can’t Have You
Vol. 2-Disco Clubbing If I Can’t Have You
Cover Ups / Various Cover Ups / Various If I Can’t Have You
Dance Beat Collective Beegeetastic If I Can’t Have You
Yvonne Elliman Best Of Yvonne Elliman If I Can’t Have You
Enuff Z’nuff Tweaked If I Can’t Have You
Grease/Saturday Night Fever Ka Grease/Saturday Night Fever Ka If I Can’t Have You
Greatest Hits Of 1978 / Various Greatest Hits Of 1978 / Various If I Can’t Have You
Hot & Rare / Various Hot & Rare / Various If I Can’t Have You
Jesse Hultberg Jesse Hultberg If I Can’t Have You
Etta James Best Of If I Can’t Have You
Chess Box (3-CD set) If I Can’t Have You
Essential If I Can’t Have You
Her Best If I Can’t Have You
Love Songs If I Can’t Have You
Love Songs If I Can’t Have You
Karaoke Grease & Saturday Night Fever If I Can’t Have You
Marie Carmen Koppell Yearning If I Can’t Have You
Labelle Moon Shadow If I Can’t Have You
Something Silver If I Can’t Have You
Scooter Lee By Request If I Can’t Have You
Memories Of Times Square Recor Vol. 8 If I Can’t Have You
Real Roxanne Go Down But Don’t Bite It If I Can’t Have You
Jorge Rico Bee Gees On Panpipes If I Can’t Have You
Sand Rubies Sidewinder Sessions If I Can’t Have You
Saturday Night Fever (Soundtrack) Saturday Night Fever / London Cast Recording If I Can’t Have You
Soundtrack If I Can’t Have You
Themes From The Musical If I Can’t Have You
Slim Man End Of The Rainbow If I Can’t Have You
Carla Stephens My Loves 4 U If I Can’t Have You
Rhonda Stisi Under The Covers If I Can’t Have You
Sweetbox Sweet Box (+ Bonus Track) If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists-50 Mega Slammin’ Party Jams 50 Mega Slammin’ Party Jams If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists-Billboard Top Hits 1975-79-Billboard Top Hits If I Can’t Have You
1978-Billboard Top Hits If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists-Dancing Queens Dancing Queens If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists-Disco Nights Vol. 1-Divas Of Dance If I Can’t Have You
Vol. 10-Disco’s Greatest Movie If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists-Global Pride Collection Global Pride Collection If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists-Great R & B Duets Great R & B Duets If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists-Heading Back To Houston Heading Back To Houston 1950-5 If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists-Memories Of Time Square Memories Of Time Square If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists-No. 1 Hits Of The 70’S No. 1 Hits Of The 70’S If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists-Pop Collector’s Edition Disco If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists-Pure Series Vol. 1-Pure Disco If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists-South Beach Vol. 2-South Beach If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists-Ultimate Frenzy Cover Mix Frenzy If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists-Whole Lotta…Rock 1978-79 If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists (A) Afrodisiac If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists (Al) Almighty Classics V.2 If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists (Be) Beegeetastic If I Can’t Have You
Best Disco Album In World Ever V.2 If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists © Celebration Party If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists (Ch) Chess Story 1945-1975 (Limited Edition) (Remastered) If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists (Di) Disco Fever If I Can’t Have You
Disco Inferno If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists (Ma) Magic If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists (Q) Queer As Folk V.2 If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists (Si) Simply The Best: Disco If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists (St) Strange Games & Funky Things V.1 If I Can’t Have You
Dinah Washington Vol. 5-Complete On Mercury If I Can’t Have You
Whole Lotta Rock 1970-78 / Various Whole Lotta Rock 1970-78 / Various If I Can’t Have You
Kim Wilde Single Collection 1981-1993 If I Can’t Have You
Singles Collection 1981-93 If I Can’t Have You
Jackie Wilson He’s So Fine/Lonely Teardrops If I Can’t Have You
Reet Petite If I Can’t Have You
Various Artists (An) And They Danced The Night If I Can’t Have You -
Flamingos Best Of Flamingos If I Can’t Have You Etta James At Last If I Can’t Have You [Duet with Harvery Fuqua]

I believe that’s “Since I Don’t Have You”, as recorded by Art Garfunkel, Barbra Streisand, New Edition, and (firstly) a doowop group I can’t remember at the moment: