Oh, also, sometimes all you have to do to feel sexy is to get MouseSpouse thinking along “nasty” lines.
I went to the gym one day and forgot to put a clean pair of underwear in my bag. It was casual Friday, so I went commando in my jeans.
I called Ivylad to tell him about it…he was thinking about it all day. 
That’s very interesting, ivylass. I hadn’t really thought about calling my husband up and planting those kinds of seeds while he’s at work…hmmm.
No matter what men say… Tom Boy is not what they want to bring out on the town. Maybe on a family reunion picnic or a softball game. But go for something slimming that hints at a flare at the top to give your boobs some help. dark is slimming. If you can find a pattern of sorts that has more dark on the waist and hips with lighter colors or a feeling of “flowering” on top. Guys don’t think with the big head when it comes to romance. Testosterone and thinking don’t mix. Take advantage of their obcessions. And little “hints” of nocturnal activities in the form of innuendo that can be taken many ways is also a nice way to get his interest when you’re out in public.