The Kunilou twins will be graduating from high school soon and that means we’ll have three children in college next fall.
Thank you for your condolences.
Each of the twins is struggling to decide between academically solid, but uninspring state universities and glamorous, well-known prestigious institutions of higher learning. Despite scholarship offers from the well-known schools, they would still cost roughly 3x as much as the state universities.
Mrs. Kunilou and I have made it clear that we can only contribute X dollars to each of them, and after that, they’re on their own. They say they understand, but frankly I don’t think they have any concept of the difference between graduating with $10,000 in student loans to pay off versus $60,000.
And one of them is already talking about graduate school.
Fellow Dopers, which of these two viewpoints would you agree with:
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Go to the more prestigious school. Your degree will gi ve you an advantage with future employers/graduate schools, and after all, they’re more prestigious for a reason. You’re going to end up in debt anyway, so go for it.
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Go to the state school. The prestigious school is probably better known because of its graduate schools, not the undergraduate program. No one is impressed by a bachelor’s degree anymore, and future employers/graduate schools will look more at what you’ve actually done than where your degree came from. At the very worst, you can always transfer after you get your general education requirements out of the way.